Monday, April 20, 2026

The Weekend ReQap

Good Monday morning everyone. Hope your weekend was nice and you're ready for the week ahead. I'm still working my way through the alphabet in the April A-Z Blog Challenge, and will incorporate today's letter into my weekend recap. Here we go-

Hubs and I had a busy weekend on tap. He was working a booth for his real estate office at the local boat show and I had plans to meet up with my sister in the nearby city to shop for the last of the furnishings we need for my mom's new space. 

On Friday we wanted to hit the nursery and get started planting a few things around the yard. Hubs had to pick up a poster for the boat show so first stop was Walgreens. He thought he ordered a poster on a board but it was just a poster so we made a short hop over to Hobby Lobby who said they could fix it in 20 minutes. 

So we went back to the shopping center we'd just left to pick up the dry cleaning and to kill twenty minutes, then back to Hobby Lobby to get the poster.  Done. 

Next stop the nursery. I love a trip to the nursery, especially this time of year. 

Also, I want roses. 


We had a specific area we were trying to beautify on this trip, so we did not get roses. We did get some beautiful plants to put around a big rock that sits beside our cart path, and I made a couple of pots for the upper deck. 



We'll need more, but it's a start. 

I love this blue eyed grass which blooms with little purple star flowers and I especially love this plant, called lime ruffles for obvious reasons-

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Day 17-Q is for Quick Change Of Plans 

While we were browsing the plant life daughter2 phoned and asked if they could come for the weekend. Her hubs grandma lives somewhat near us and she's not well so they needed to make a trip our way. Of course we said yes but my brain immediately went into overdrive...are there clean sheets on the beds? are the bathrooms downstairs clean? is there something I can cobble together for dinner? 

Not without a stop at the market so that happened too. 

We got home and worked in the yard and daughter1 called and said the boys wanted to come paddle boarding if that's okay. It's fine. As long as they manage it because hubs is up to his elbows in dirt and I need to figure out dinner and food for the weekend and all the rest. She said they'd take the boat for a ride instead and would come to us after dinner to see the cousins. 

So I wrapped up my gardening and came in and showered and made sure everything was ready for people to sleep and stay for a few days and then about 4 daughter2 arrived with her littles. Her hubs went straight on to his grandparents, but we had dinner and then the cousin crew was all together again. There were popsicles all around and outdoor play in the beautiful evening weather. 

Saturday was a hot one, and after a breakfast of bacon and eggs everyone went their separate ways. Hubs went to the boat show, daughter2 took her kiddoes to her sister's house to play there, her hubs went back to his grandpa's, and I drove into the nearby city to meet my sister at a furniture store. 

We spent the whole day shopping and forgot to snap a picture, so here ya go-


This is us a few years ago, and we basically look the same. 

Saturday night hubs grilled steaks and after the kids went to bed the adults sat up and chatted for a while. We didn't make it to church on Sunday because hubs had to leave before lunchtime to go back to the boat show, and daughter1 and her hubs had spent the night in the nearby city so they could attend my son-in-law's high school reunion. Her kids were at the in-laws so we just had a morning at home...

Then after lunch we loaded up and went to check out the boat show. They had a bounce house which was a huge hit. Sugar has no fear and needs no help. All the little girls who were playing in there wanted to hold her hand and slide down the ginormous slide with her, but she was not having it. "I can do it myself!... her Nana's granddaughter for sure. 


There was a sweet little lemonade truck beside the booth hubs was manning and daughter2 tried the dill pickle lemonade which was pretty good (I love dill pickles) and I had Princess Peach which was a combo of strawberry, peach, and coconut...heavy on the strawberry, but very tasty. 

Hubs grilled burgers once the boat show wrapped up, and we relaxed afterwards before getting the kids settled in to bed and the adults not too far behind. 

We had a lot of plans this weekend and they mostly still happened but there was some shuffling too and that's the thing I want to keep. The ability to hold plans loosely and be flexible when my grown kids call and say, 'Is it okay if we come last minute?'

I want to always say yes to my girls when they need us. One thing about this season of life is my priorities are crystal clear. I don't get to see my daughter2 as often as her sister due to geography and I want to seize the day when the day is offered. 

She is in a busy busy busy whew! season currently with a two year old and a three year old who are always in ON! mode and I want to be a soft place for her to land. Both my girls. Hubs and I have the opportunity to do a million and ten things here at the lake, but I want to hold on to flexibility and embrace the quick change of plans that can happen, knowing above everything else family gets top billing. 


Linking today with Holly (Pink Lady) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books)  for their regular Hello Monday hop. So what were you up to this weekend? 

20 comments:

  1. What a great weekend and perfect reason to pivot a bit with your plans since your daughter and family were going to be in the area. Looks like loads of fun with cousins nearby and nice weather to boot :). Your new plants are so pretty and great throw back of you and your sister! I hope you found some if not most or all of the things you need for your mom's new place.

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  2. That sounds like such a lovely weekend! I definitely drop my plans whenever any one of the boys wants/needs me for something. This weekend was mostly all about Alec as he came home for 2 1/2 days before heading right back to college.

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  3. It's so wonderful that you could pivot so well! What a gift - unexpected time together. Sorry for the reason behind it but it's nice that the grandson can go on his own to see his grandmother, too.

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  4. I would always say yes to my daughters if they wanted to see me. The opportunities do not arise that often now that they’re both so busy!

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  5. What a weekend full of pleasant surprises- I am so inspired by you- you have a way of always pivoting and making it look easy and you just exude JOY.

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  6. It sounds like a good but busy weekend. The nursery is a good place to visit at this time of year. All the flowers are so pretty. How lovely to have your daughters and the kids visit. It looks like a lot of fun!

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  7. Quick change of plans is a good way to spend your time

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  8. My parents do the same thing and it's awesome!

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  9. Whew! You are a pro at quick change and pivoting. Well done! We had a crazy full weekend here, too.

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  10. OMG, such beautiful pictures!
    I'm happy to say that all my challenge posts are done and ready to roll. For instance, I wrote my post on "Z" Saturday. So now, all I need to do is read and comment (probably should get back to writing my book).
    Talk about change of plans: My wife flew to San Juan Saturday to be with her 80 year old uncle. Seems his sister (her aunt) was placed in hospice Wednesday. She was living in Seattle with her daughter. Her brother (my wife's uncle) planned to visit on the 24th. Sadly, she passed away Friday night. My wife still went to Puerto Rico. I don't think they plan on going to Washington this week (he may still go the end of the week, though). If she chooses to go (a change of plan following a change of plan), she certainly may. Me? Well, you see what I'M doing. But, I'll change my plans, if necessary.

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  11. What a fun weekend!!! QUICK change of plans. love it.

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  12. I love the quick change of plans...we do that too. If our grown boys call and say "Hey" we make it work. ;-)
    I do love seeing all the flowers.
    xo
    Carla

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  13. What a quick change of plans! You pivoted and I love what you said about being a soft place to land.

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  14. Quite a weekend! I love that rose! I don't do well with roses though.

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  15. Sometimes those spur-of-the-moment "quick" changes make for the best memories!! Great photos of the new plants AND of those kiddos! I lifted a prayer for the ailing grandma and family. xo

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  16. I love this and how you all were able to be flexible and it worked out that everyone was around together. The plants look lovely and that is on my list at my new place.

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  17. Wow! Y'all are so flexible. I need to be more spontaneous.

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  18. I'm with you all the way on being flexible for family - the grandkids grow up so fast and we need to take all opportunities for spending time with them and easing the load for the grown kids.

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  19. Your family is so blessed to have you in their lives!

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