Wednesday, November 11, 2026

Oh My Stars It's The Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post then leave a comment for the blogger there before you. Kind comments make the blog world go round, and for that we're grateful. Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond
1. Marilyn texted me something that inspired this question, so thank you Marilyn! Of the following sayings, typically associated with the (American) southern way of speaking, which do you most relate to right now? Explain. 

Bless your heart~too big for yer britches~ madder than a wet hen~you're preachin' to the choir~
knee high to a grasshopper~oh my stars

As it happens today is Marilyn's birthday so everyone hop over to her blog (Memphis Bridges) and wish her a happy day. 

My grandma used to say 'oh my stars' a lot and that one makes me think of her. Today I'm going with  "you're preachin' to the choir'. Feels apropos in these turbulent times. I see so many 'political' posts shared on Facebook, but I don't see those posts changing anyone's mind. 

2. The Hodgepodge lands on (US) Veterans Day this year. Are you a veteran? Have a family member who's a veteran? If you answered yes, tell us something about them. Will you do anything to mark the day in some special way? 

I'm not a veteran but am the daughter of one,  and I appreciate our service men and women more than I can say. My dad was a Marine and served in three wars. I'm proud of that. My son-in-law went to med school courtesy of the US Army so he served his country and finished med school debt free. A win-win. 

If I see someone wearing a hat that suggests they were in the service I'll ask, and if they say yes I'll tell them thank you. I try to pay for coffee or a meal if the opportunity presents itself. Our neighborhood has a monthly happy hour at the clubhouse and in November we honor any veterans who happen to be neighbors. Someone puts together a slide show that will play while we sip and chat, and last year they played all of the anthems from the various service branches which always stirs up feelings of patriotic pride. 

3. Is breakfast for dinner a stroke of genius or a sign of total household collapse? Is breakfast for dinner a regular thing at your house? Are all family members on board? 

Personally I'd call it a stroke of genius. Who doesn't love breakfast? I wouldn't say it's a regular thing here, but if we've been traveling, going going going, or have no plan for dinner then an omelette is one of our go-to options. Or a fried egg sandwich. 

I don't do waffles or pancakes or that sort of thing, but when there were little ones in the house that was popular. Hubs is on board with an omelette and in fact, if we're having an omelette he's the chef. 

4. How do you see the world? 

Broken. In need of a Savior. But also beautiful. Filled with small acts of kindness, goodness, and generosity if we're paying attention. We had a message on gratitude last week in church and one of the things the pastor said really stuck with me. 

So often it's not that we aren't grateful, but we're busy. So so busy. Distracted. In such a hurry to move on to the next thing that we don't pause to acknowledge how grateful we are for what we have, what's right in front of us, how much we've been given.  I think that's so true. 

5. And this week's gratitude question-what's something about your surroundings (home, neighborhood, city) you're grateful for? 

The lake has been absolutely gorgeous this fall. Stunning. I tried to snap a picture on Monday capturing the tree line reflected in the water, but my picture doesn't do it justice-

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

A very dear and precious friend of mine passed away yesterday. I met her in a Bible Study in the UK the first year I was there and we've remained friends for more than twenty years. She loved Jesus with her whole heart, always pointing people to Him, always with a smile on her face and joy in her heart. She leaves a legacy of faithfulness, thoughtfulness, love, and graciousness that I admire and hope for in my own life. 

Some friendships feel like a little glimpse of heaven. Hers was one of them. 

 

22 comments:

  1. Oh Joyce I am so sorry to read about the loss of your friend; my deepest sympathy is with you.

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  2. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It sounds like she lived an abundant life loving and serving the Lord. I hope her family and friends are comforted by the memories of good times with her and the assurance that she is with Jesus and the saints in glory. It's so true what your pastor said about busyness keeps us from truly appreciating what we've been so richly blessed with. I am NOT one normally to go up to strangers to initiate a conversation but in the past few years, when I've seen men wearing hats indicating military service, I will thank them for their service to our country.

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    1. She and her husband have been on staff with Cru for more than 50 years.

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  3. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.
    For the last two Tuesday nights, we've talked about gratitude with the young adults. We are so busy that we often fail to stop and give thanks!

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  4. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. I feel the same way about people who have served in the military. That is nice that your neighborhood does that tradition. It's been such a beautiful fall. Your lake is gorgeous!

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  5. I love what your neighborhood does each month, particularly for Veterans. I try to stop and thank people for their service when I see them wearing their hats out in public. I feel like I am patriotic to my core. I loved your answer for how you see the world! I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, and once again...I am thankful for the hope we have in Jesus and that we can grieve with that in mind. She sounded like a beautiful friend. Thanks for the link party each week, my friend!

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  6. The lake is beautiful. I'm sorry about your friend.

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  7. So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.

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  8. You do have beautiful views to be thankful for. I love reflection photos. Love how you answered #4. Sorry about the earthly loss of your friend. We've been surrounded by loss. Hats off to your dear dad for his service!

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  9. That is so kind to pay for coffee or a meal of a service man or woman but it is the least us normal people can do.
    Ohh! I do love a fried egg sandwich and an omelette, they are great for using up random bits in the fridge.
    It must be wonderful living by the lake.
    I am so sorry about your friend. Sending love and hugs.

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  10. I'm sorry about the passing of your friend.
    Thank you for all you do for our Veterans. I know they appreciate those acts of graitude for their service. I agree with you on #4

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  11. Hello Joyce,
    Sending a big hug!! I am sorry for your loss.
    I enjoyed your answer to #2. Thank you.
    And agree with your #4.
    xo

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  12. Regarding what your pastor said about people being too busy to express gratitude: I’ve really got a thing about people not saying thanks for gifts sent. I should adopt your pastor’s attitude: my people are just busy, preoccupied, or maybe even burdened by [whatever] to remember to say thanks.

    Beautiful song you’ve shared here. Nichole Nordeman was one of our church pianists in her late teens when I lived in Colorado Springs in the 1990s. She has wonderful talent.

    And back to saying "thanks," thank you for the Hodgepodge questions. I do enjoy participating. You have a real gift for making us think and drawing members of the blogging community together.

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  13. You're preaching to the choir is a good one. Thank you for your father's service. Also thank you to your son in law. It is sweet of you to do those things for veterans. I'm not a big fan of waffles or pancakes for dinner either but I do like eggs. Yes, you are 100% correct on your answer for #4. You living on that lake is such a beautiful blessing. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. ((HUGS))

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  14. I'm sad to learn of your friend's passing, Joyce. That song, so perfect!
    Like a big, beautiful holiday table, I appreciate what each of my friends brings to enrich my life in their own way.

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  15. I enjoyed your answers. I'm so sorry about your friend. Sending you hugs.

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  16. I'm s sorry about the loss of your friend. It sounds like a very special relationship filled with lots of beautiful memories! A friendship like that is a gift beyond measure!

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  17. Thank you for a beautiful Hodgepodge, Joyce. I'm sorry for the loss of your dear friend. Your picture of the reflected trees on the water is gorgeous! xo

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  18. I am so sorry for your loss Joyce- thinking of you grateful for your weekly linkup XO

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  19. Hi Joyce, sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I can’t have any breakfast until after my cataract surgery today. You are blessed to have such beautiful views. Thanks for sharing them and for hosting the WH each week!

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  20. Wonderful questions and answers. Sorry to hear about your friend.. my deepest condolences.

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  21. Joyce, you have had your share of loss and grief lately. So sorry. Praying you have a peace-filled weekend. And, yes, the lake is stunning!! Just soak in that view - it has to calm you soul!:)

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