Thursday, November 5, 2026

Share Your Shelf-October

It's the first Thursday of the month which means it's time to join Joanne and Dara in sharing what we read the month prior. Here's mine-


The Borrowed Life Of Frederick Fife by Anna Johnston


I actually read this one in September but forgot to include it in last month's recap. This is a sweet story, an enjoyable read, a little too long, and the premise just a little bit unbelievable, but you go with it because you like the characters so much. 

Fred is an 82-year old widower who is broke, lonely, and nearing homelessness after spending his life savings on medical bills for his late wife Dawn. While walking near a river Fred finds a dead man in a wheelchair who happens to look exactly like him. 

After an accidental roll down a hill Fred wakes up in the local nursing home and realizes he's been mistaken for the deceased man (Bernard). Fred decides to stay where the food is good, the bed is warm and he has instant friends. Complications arise when Bernard's estranged and pregnant daughter Hannah makes an unexpected visit and the story unfolds from there. 

Lots of bathroom humor but they're senior citizens in a nursing home so maybe that's to be expected? Still I liked this one. It was sweet and what I'd dub a feel good read. I gave it four stars. 


The Calamity Club by Kathryn Stockett


Raise your hand if you read The Help. Everybody read it, right? Or maybe you saw the movie? 

The Calamity Club is Kathryn Stockett's second novel, written some seventeen years after her wildly successful first novel-The Help.  We're back in the south, Mississippi to be precise,  and it's 1933 so the height of the Depression. 

The story follows an 11-year old orphan named Meg, an unmarried bookkeeper named Birdie, and Meg's formerly imprisoned mother Charlie as she and Birdie form an unlikely partnership in an attempt to rescue Meg from institutional abuse. In order to fund the rescue Birdie and Charlie open a 'business'. ahem. 

The book is over 600 pages long and I thought the middle could have been edited down without losing the storyline, but I did listen all the way to the end because I wanted to know what happened. I usually read 'real' books, but the Audible on this one is fantastic. You almost feel like you're listening to a play it's so well done. 

I had trouble rating this one because my feelings were mixed. The 'business' began to wear on me, but the writing is terrific I cared a lot about Meg, who is a delightful little girl despite her circumstances, and I think most readers are rooting for her the whole way through.  In the end I gave it four stars, mostly because I admire Stockett's ability to tell a story so completely and so well. 


The Gales of November: The Untold Story of the Edmund Fitzgerald by John U. Bacon 


This is my book club's November read and I'll say right off the bat I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it. It's well written and in many spots feels like a novel. It's a book where you know the ending from the beginning and that knowledge hovers as you read. 

A shipwreck is pretty much my worst nightmare, and actually not even a shipwreck. Rough seas. No thank you. I think a lot of people in our group voted to read this one because we all like the Gordon Lightfoot song lol. Now that I've read the book I see how accurate the lyrics were. I also love the song Brandy and it's mentioned several times in the book as it became the sailor's anthem of sorts. 

The book chronicles the final, fatal 1975 voyage of the SS Edmund Fitzgerald, which was the largest freighter on the Great Lakes. We learn about the lives that were lost and the families touched by the tragedy when it sank on Lake Superior during a massive storm. 

I read the actual book which includes photographs. I knew almost nothing about life on the Great Lakes, how dangerous the shipping industry is there, and how brave the sailors. This is not a book I would have picked up on my own, and while I was expecting dry, it was a really interesting and emotional read. Five stars for me. 

Murder Takes A Vacation by Laura Lippman


My daughter's mother-in-law picked this one up in an airport and shared it with me when she was finished reading. I love a good mystery, and while this one did have you wondering, it was also quite silly in parts. However! I had two doctor's appointments last week that had me feeling anxious as I waited to be called in, and this book was a great distraction. 

Sometimes a light mystery is the perfect thing. 

Laura Lippman typically writes mystery, crime fiction, and suspense so this one, while a mystery, was a little lighter than her usual fare. 

The story centers around Muriel Blossom, a 68 -year old widower from Baltimore. Muriel won big in the lottery and booked a dream holiday to London followed by an upscale Seine river cruise in France. Her friend Elinor will join her for the cruise. 

On her way to Europe Muriel meets Allen Turner, romance blooms, and then within 24 hours of arriving in Paris Allan is found murdered. If I had to use one word to describe Muriel it would be naive. Or too-trusting. 

Muriel is then targeted by a number of suspicious characters in search of a missing artifact they believe Allen was carrying and the ending wraps up the whole thing in a tidy package. Like I said light, but still enjoyable. 


Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke 


Okay, who has read this and what did you think? It seems to be a love it or hate it kind of novel. 

I wasn't going to read it, but a neighbor shared it with me so I figured, why not?  One of my daughters told me she didn't think I'd like it and she was mostly right. Also, I follow Hannah Neeleman on Instagram aka Ballerina Farm, and pretty sure the author snatched a fair chunk of this story from Hannah's life. Not exactly, but I found myself thinking of her as I read. 

Now I will say I loved the premise of this book, but the main character Natalie never hit the mark for me. She's a mother who hates motherhood, a farm wife who hates farming, oh and by the way she isn't too crazy about her husband either.  

The story is described as a psychological thriller but I didn't get the thriller aspect at all. Natalie Heller Mills, is a successful  'Christian tradwife influencer' who has built her brand on a romanticized version of domestic bliss. Following a public scandal Natalie suddenly wakes up in the year 1855, where she's held captive by a brutal version of her own family and is forced to see the reality of the pioneer life she once sold as beatific to her millions of followers. 

I thought this book had so much potential but it's filled with cliches (partly the point I suppose), and felt like it was written for the social media crowd. For sure with the intention of going right to film. Which it will. Honestly I heard Anne Hathaway would star in the book turned movie before the book even had much press. 

I know I'm in the minority on this one but eh. Nope. Not for me. 

If you read something great recently send it my way. Be sure to hop over to the host blogs to see what others are reading too.

Wednesday, November 4, 2026

Fall Is Blooming In The Hodgepodge

Hello Hodgepodgers. Welcome to November and another week sharing our answers to random questions asked on Sundays, answered on Wednesdays. If you've played along today add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. It's the month of gratitude and everyone is grateful for your kind comments. Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond

1. Our  November Hodgepodges always include a question related to gratitude. What is one small thing you're grateful for today? 

Small town life. 

I'm answering these questions on Election Day and I voted.  Two of the poll workers were neighbors of mine, and I ran into three friends there who were also voting, one I hadn't seen in ages. She gave me a big hug and we made plans to get together before the end of the year. I love being out and about town and seeing people I know. 

2. Chrysanthemums-pansies-burning bush-ornamental cabbage-camellias...your favorite in an autumn garden? Would we find any of these in your yard/garden this year? 

I love them all, but I guess pansies might be my favorite of the blooms listed. We have camellias and they're beautiful too.  It's nice to see something blooming bright on a gray November day. 

3. If you could clear out or organize one physical space or mental habit before the year ends, what would it be?

Every time I open my phone or social media I think about how I need to go through all the saved files and open tabs there and get rid of anything I no longer want to make, buy, or remember. 

Then I want to make and buy and put the things I want to remember (quotes, thoughts shared, scripture, etc) in a place where I can refer to them besides on my phone. 

4. Brussels sprouts...love 'em or no thank you? If you said love 'em how do you like them prepared? 

I wouldn't say I love them, but yes I do like them. My favorite way to have them prepared is oven roasted with just salt, pepper, and some olive oil. I had a breakfast bowl recently that used roasted Brussels sprouts as the base instead of potatoes and it was delicious. And I have a recipe for an autumn salad that calls for shaved Brussels sprouts which is really yummy. I'm going to make that for a dinner party we're hosting soon. 

5. It's reassuring to know that____________________. 

As one of my favorite podcasters likes to say...God's eternal plan of redemption is going off without a hitch. Nothing that happens in this world comes as a surprise to Him and there is great comfort in remembering that. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

When I can't come up with anything random here's what you get...50 days until Christmas. Have you started shopping? Finished? In full on Thanksgiving mode until December? 

Tuesday, November 3, 2026

Autumn's Everyday Images

We've had such a beautiful fall. Even now with the leaves beginning to drop and many turning brown it's still beautiful. Our temperatures have been so nice during the day and while we need some rain I'm not going to complain about the sunshine that filled October. 

I'm linking today with Kym's most recent Everyday Images photo prompt challenge and I snapped most of these on walks around my neighborhood. It's a sea of gold and I love it. Photos can't completely capture the beauty. Several pictures could be used for more than one word prompt this time around and I like that. Here we go-

current season (quarterly)~crunchy~leaf~at home (monthly)~mailbox~wild~ black and white 


Current season~

It's fall y'all...





crunchy~

A walk this time of year takes me back to childhood. You're never to old to stomp through fallen leaves...



leaf~





at home~

We have walking paths throughout our neighborhood that connect the different sections. They're steep and I've got the ankle to prove it, but the woods are so pretty and we like walking here this time of year especially. 

This is a another side of 'at home'...


The lake. 

Autumn skies are the best, and I snapped this one from the dock because the sky said November, don't you think? 


wild~

We've got lemons. Another bumper crop which is wild to me. They normally take a little longer to ripen than they did this year, but these are ready. We've already picked some and I'm going to make lemon bars for friends who are coming to dinner tomorrow night. Hubs makes limoncello every year and most go to that, but I'll use a few for cooking too. 


Also we still have a handful of azaleas blooming here, but this is South Carolina and she clings to her summer blooms. 

mailbox/black and white~

There's always a prompt that proves to be a bit of a challenge, but I like trying to find something that fits. All the mailboxes in our neighborhood are the same so not that interesting, but they are black so that works. I spied a singular white gardenia bloom hanging on beside this one and voila...black and white and a mailbox too-


"Autumn carries more gold in it's pocket than all the other seasons." Jim Bishop 



Monday, November 2, 2026

Remember Remember...

It's somehow November. We had a good weekend here and Mondays are when we chat about what we did. 

Friday night our neighborhood had a costume party and it was a lot fun. Hubs and I had what might be dubbed a 'couples costume' as in we went together. He dressed as a boy scout and I was the campfire. My costume was comfy and fun to wear and hubs was an actual boy scout so used most of his own stuff.

The party was in our neighborhood clubhouse and the food was catered. There were a couple of games which were just right, and then we all voted on best costume. The weather was perfect and I'm going to say we've had an absolutely spectacular fall. 

Saturday morning sunrise says I'm right. 

Hubs and I took the little brown dog for a nice walk around the neighborhood, then spent the afternoon reading, watching football, and I took a nap because life has caught up with me. Later we met up with daughter1 and her crew for dinner at a local brewery after they finished trick or treating. 

They had the best costumes, each one a character from Lord of The Rings. My daughter and son-in-law read the series aloud to the boys so they know who's who. So good! My youngest grandson was under the weather on Halloween so missed some of the fun, but dad took Sugar trick or treating and she shared with her brother. She was dressed as a princess and we think that's perfect for her. 

Sunday hubs and I went to church, then after lunch he went to watch football with a neighbor and I worked on my blog. We regrouped late afternoon to go to our middle grandson's birthday party which had a pirate theme. 


My daughter has an art background and as a momma to three kids their birthdays give her an outlet for her creative side. 

She drew the tablecloths as pirate maps-

Everyone found their pirate name, they mined for treasures...


...ate pizza, roasted marshmallows, and of course celebrated the birthday boy with a fabulous chocolate cake. 



It was another fun backyard birthday where the kids ran around, played soccer, climbed on the playset, and had a ball just being kids. 


Looking forward to a month where gratitude is the focus and there is so much to be grateful for. Hope your weekend was a good one too. 


If you blogged hop over to the host blogs and add your link too-Holly (The Pink Lady Blog) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books). 

Sunday, November 1, 2026

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 678

Okay. November. Here we go. You'll find this week's Hodgepodge questions below. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here on Wednesday (November 4) to add your link to the party. See you there! 

1. Our  November Hodgepodges always include a question related to gratitude. What is one small thing you're grateful for today? 

2. Chrysanthemums-pansies-burning bush-ornamental cabbage-camellias...your favorite in an autumn garden? Would we find any of these in your yard/garden this year? 

3. If you could clear out or organize one physical space or mental habit before the year ends, what would it be?

4. Brussel sprouts...love 'em or no thank you? If you said love 'em how do you like them prepared? 

5. It's reassuring to know that____________________. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Thursday, October 29, 2026

Lucky Number Seven

Two birthdays and Halloween within the span of seven days means lots of words on the blog this week. Today my middle grandson turns seven years old and the middle must have a letter from Nana on his birthday. Here we go-

Dear Max, 

Max is not your real name of course but it is your blog name. Someday you'll understand. You didn't immediately have a blog name when you first made an appearance on my blog, mostly because you were living more than 7,000 miles away on the other side of the world and I wasn't sure what fit. 

You were an easy low key baby and we used to call you Chill. Not gonna lie, we kind of smile at that now. On your first birthday your mama sent me a photograph of you, and when I saw the sparkle in your eye and the mischievous grin on your face I thought of Where The Wild Things Are and the little boy in that story. Thus in this space you were dubbed Max. 

We don't use the word chill so much to describe you anymore lol. You are a strong, athletic, handsome, brilliant boy and your Nana loves you so much.  

Goodness you're smart. You're able to catch emotional undertones and dry humor with ease,  and sometimes I forget how old you are. You're perceptive and quick-witted and full of curiosity. 

Sports are your jam and you love them all. You have your favorite teams of course, Clemson football and Atlanta Braves baseball, but if there's a game on you'll pick a team and root for that team and care about the outcome, and make commentary like you've been watching that team play all your life. You know stats and remember which player struck out in the second inning of game three in last year's playoffs and it's all pretty remarkable. 

You've developed a real love of reading this year and that's one of my favorite things. Sometimes when I come over you're on the couch engrossed in a book and that site makes me so happy. 

You love riding your bike, playing catch with your dad, the water, putting together Lego creations with your big brother, being a big brother yourself, Asian dumplings, a big pot of steamed mussels, and winning at games. 

Solidarity on that last one little man. Nana gets it. 

I love watching God's plan for your life unfold. Stay close to Him always and know you are loved with an everlasting love by the One who made you. And by your Nana too. 

Here comes a brand new year...

May it be full of new experiences, new words, new wonders. 

And may it sparkle just as brightly as you do. 

xoxo, 
Nana

Wednesday, October 28, 2026

A Not So Seedy Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond
1. What most recently gave you goose bumps? 

I learned a new word while trying to answer this question-frisson. This term is a more accurate description of the 'goose bumps' we get related to something moving as opposed to something scary. It's defined as a sudden strong feeling of excitement or thrill; a shudder of emotion.

So not in the scary sense but in the 'frisson' sense I would say watching the Marines as they helped with my mama's service at Arlington National Cemetery. I wrote about it on Monday (That Peaceful Piece Of Property).  

Often patriotic moments give me 'goose bumps'...the anthem beautifully sung, a flag unfurled against a bright blue sky, a soldier coming home...

2. What does Halloween look like in your home and/or neighborhood these days? Do you participate? 

Mostly pretty low key. Some years we'll go to a party, some years we're home. We love seeing our grandchildren in their costumes, either in person or in photographs. We normally won't have trick or treaters here as the driveways are long, and there aren't a lot of young children in our neighborhood. Some years there's a trunk or treat in the Clubhouse parking lot but I don't think that's happening this year. There are lots of them around the area though, so plenty of places for kids to snag candy. 

I know there are strong feelings about the day, but for us it's always just been low key fun and a chance to dress up and hang out with friends. I don't decorate for Halloween, but do have fall decor on the front porch that incudes pumpkins, and a few things inside but nothing scary. That's never been my thing. 

This year our neighborhood is having a costume party so hubs and I will be going to that and I think it will be fun. I'll post a picture at some point. We like our costumes. We try to come up with something original and I think we've ticked that box this year. 

Our neighborhood kayak group does a dock or treat and some years we've been a host dock where they stop for a small nibble and beverage. It's a lot of fun, but we're not home the day they're doing that this year. 

3. Pumpkin, sunflower, sesame, poppy, chia...your favorite seed on the list? What's something you like to make/eat that calls for one of these seeds in the recipe? 

I like all of these but probably eat more poppy and sesame than any of the others listed. I have a salad I love that calls for poppy seeds and I like poppy seed chicken too. I add sesame seeds to several Aisan dishes I make, and chia goes on my morning oatmeal.  I love an everything bagel which uses several of these seeds. 

4. What's the most (or one of the most) 'fall photos' you've ever taken? Share it here. Just one. 

Just one? But I have so many. Okay, here's maybe my most favorite of all my favorites-

This picture was snapped in my NJ backyard, my first backyard if you don't count the NJ backyard I grew up in. Technically I've had three NJ backyards, but this one is a snapshot of life in 1991. 

Little girls in their matching Land's End jumpsuits, our first pup Abbey getting in on the action, hubs still mustached, me with my God-given hair color and a full full heart, and the most beautiful red maple that burned a fiery red every autumn and made you grateful for the beauty of creation and the imagination of the One who made it. 

5. Somehow we're rolling in to November next week. If your October were a chapter in a book, what would the title of this chapter be? 

Grief and Grace In Autumn

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

It's soup season and this one is easy and delicious...

You definitely taste the lemon. So good! You'll find the recipe here-Lemon Chicken Orzo Soup