Wednesday, November 5, 2025

The Hodgepodge Is Never Just So-So

Welcome to November and this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. Mine is wordy. That second question was better in my head lol. Thanks for playing along! 

Quick reminder-I'm hosting a Day In The Life linkup here for anyone interested, on Thursday, November 13th. If you need more info you'll find details at the end of the post linked here (A Freshly Painted Hodgepodge).

Okay, back to today... 

From this Side of the Pond

1. Besides Thanksgiving, something on your November calendar you're looking forward to? 

My younger daughter and her littles are coming to hang out with us next week and there's nothing I love more than seeing my two girls together. Love having all the grands together too, but I especially love my girls having sister time. 

2. Dictionary.com's word of the year is '6-7'. Huh? 

Is it even a word??? I had to consult the internet to find out it's meaning because apparently I'm old and this particular slang is not part of my vocabulary. Is it part of yours? According to the article I read, it's a viral term, more of an inside joke with an unclear meaning driven by social media.

What do you think? 

Dictionary. com says it's selection each year is a 'linguistic time capsule reflecting social trends and events, but they also admitted to being confused by '6-7'. Some say it means so-so and is sometimes accompanied by the up and down hand motion we associate with the phrase so-so.

What word do you think would have made a better choice? 

Here are my answers-

Is it part of my vocabulary. Nope. 

What do I think? I realize and can also appreciate the way slang is very much a generational thing and changes with the times. I can get on board with slang working it's way into everyday usage, and even our dictionary in some cases, but not super ridiculous slang. 

I suppose all slang is slightly ridiculous, but even the people using this one don't seem to get it, and it's not an expression I see lasting the way a lot of slang does. 

What word do I think would have made a better choice? If we're sticking with slang I like doomscroll and I especially like doomscroll detox. Who doesn't need that in today's climate? 

3. What's a food, trend, activity, or thing people love but you think is just so-so? 

Green drinks. The real thing, aka veggies, is so much better. 

4. Are you a tea drinker? Hot or cold? How do you like yours and at what time of day? Do you like flavored teas or teas billed as calming, energizing, healing, etc? 

Yes and I like both hot and cold. I drink coffee first thing in the morning, but will have a cup of tea most afternoons around 3 PM. I like mine with just a splash of milk. No flavors, just regular tea flavored tea please.  

Also, I want my hot tea in an actual cup, no styrofoam or metal Stanley type container. And I don't want it microwaved. We have an automatic super hot water dispenser in our kitchen sink but I do not make tea with it. I use a kettle like all tea snobs should. An electric kettle is fine. I like the act of making tea, the exhale that seems to come with it, and the slowdown it brings to a busy day. 

5. The November Hodgepodge always has a gratitude question each week. For today, what are three things that make your heart sing? 

  • Well, in a nod to the previous question its tea drinking season and I love my afternoon cuppa. In the warm months I drink iced coffee in the afternoon but once fall hits I'm all about a cozy cup of  afternoon tea. 
  • Autumn skies. I love sunrises that are so brilliant they reflect off the lake into my kitchen window. 


  • My sister. Today is her birthday and I'm  feeling especially grateful for her this year. My mom lives with her and I'm so thankful for all she does to keep my mom safe and feeling loved. Growing older requires a lot of letting go of roles we've always held, routines we've created, and  bits and pieces of who we used to be. But caring for someone who’s aging means letting go, too. Caregivers give up time, energy, and parts of their own lives, and I want her to always know how very much we appreciate all she does. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I've been posting our weekly 'day dates' here because we're aiming for 52 in 52 weeks. Mentioning them every week helps us stay on track. We've had a busy month so most weeks we've had to make the most of whatever window of time we happen to have, and I guess that's kind of the point-find time. 

Day Date Episode Five...does a visit to the doctor count? 

It does if you decide it does. Last week hubs had an appointment at the dermatologist and we made a date of it. It's about an hour away so lots of time to chat in the car both coming and going. It was a rainy day and we decided we'd have lunch out after his appointment. 

I sat in the car and read my book, then we did another fun thing together which was a trip back to the car dealer to get new batteries in my key fobs. Naturally the warning light for that couldn't have come on when I was there the week before, but we popped back in and they were quick and are always so nice. 

We thought about where we wanted to eat and initially thought we'd try something new but it was not yet 11 am so most lunch spots weren't open. We decided on breakfast instead and hubs suggested a spot we used to frequent when our girls were in uni here. We went more often when we lived in the city while building our house. 

It's a diner of sorts but we like it and we enjoyed talking about living in this town and would we ever want to live there again, and how much it's changed but how it's still a great city. 

We remembered to snap a quick rainy day selfie out front before we left. 

Day dates are what you make them. We likely will miss one this week as my mother-in-law is visiting, but we'll tack a week on at the end because we're retired and we can do whatever we want. That's what we like to say anyway. 

Happy Wednesday everyone! Happy birthday Sissy xo 

24 comments:

  1. Agree with you about drinking green drinks. Just eat the veggies! (Says one who doesn't eat nearly enough veggies!!) At home, I drink my tea in a cup but I always take tea with me when I sub and then I have to use a travel tea container. I don't have a kettle so the microwave it is. Of course I debate getting one- if it ain't broke don't fix it and don't bring another "thing" into my kitchen, ya know? But I'd like one also? The micro it is for now! Great pics of you and your sister and you and your husband. Thanks for the link up!

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  2. Good answer on green drinks. I have never had one.
    So fun that your daughter is coming! The sibling relationship is so important.
    That counts as a date. I enjoy the time in the car with my hub. I think Tom has the same coat as your hub in that date photo. It's so stiff. I can't hug him in it.
    Yes, to your sister having your mom live with her. I know how much you appreciate the care she give her and that can't always be easy.

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  3. Doomscroll is a great word and I am guilty of doing it a lot and I agree, green drinks are just so, so!
    Tea just doesn't taste right out of anything else but a cup or mug. It made me smile that you use a kettle, that is the right way to make tea. hehehe
    The Autumn skies really are beautiful!
    Happy birthday to you're sister!
    I love that you made the most of a visit to the doctor and made it a date.

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  4. What a sweet happy birthday shout out to your sister. As my in-laws get older, I can definitely appreciate your words about care givers. We live in the same neighborhood as my in-laws and are taking on more responsibilities as they get older. It’s a big reason why we bought our house. Anyhoo, happy birthday to your sis!

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  5. So funny about green drinks and definitely agree that the real veggies are the bests- whole foods always win. Love what you said about seeing your girls together and that is your favorite thing- I love seeing my girls together and look forward to observing them as adults together too :)

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  6. I didn't think of green drinks - good choice . . .they don't appeal to me, either! I would also rather eat a piece of fruit over drinking a glass of juice.

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  7. I have found that I'm switching from iced drinks to warm drinks now that it's cool outside. I've not had hot coffee in months, but I'm drinking it every morning this week. I need to try some more tea and might take some up to my work...do you have a favorite kind or flavor? I love what you said about your sister; I feel the same about all of mine. Thank you for always hosting us each week!

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  8. I am so excited for you to have your girls together and all of the grandchildren together at the same time. Enjoy each precious moment. Interesting answer for #2 and I hadn't even heard about droomscroll and it sounds rather depressing. My dad always drank regular Lipton tea. He never drank coffee. I also like the way you make your tea, the old fashioned way. Way to go! The autumn sky is beautiful and I love the pictures you shared. I loved reading your random. You two have a lovely life together. I'm so happy for both of you. God Bless.

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  9. Your autumn skies are fabulous. It is so good that your mom is cared for. God bless all of you for honoring her. It's fun to be creative with 'dates' especially when you are retired and can do whatever you want. :) Hip hip hooray that you'll have your girls around together, soon!

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  10. Hello Fellow Tea Snob ... hee hee, me too, I was agreeing with you about the proper way to make a cup of tea.
    Enjoy your family time. I love what you said about sister time.
    And Happy Birthday to your sister.

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  11. I forgot all about the hype of those green drinks. Enjoy your time with your girls. I love the dates you and hub go on.

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  12. My mum always said, "I'll put the kettle on" and all would be right with the world.

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  13. I am visiting my sis in South Louisiana this week, so I just couldn't factor in time to Hodgepodge. I do have fodder for my "Life in the Day of" post, though.

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  14. Green drinks! Yes! I see that trend all over.

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  15. What a beautiful thing you wrote about your sister. Happy Birthday to your sister! That will be so fun to have your girls together and all the cousins spending time together too. My son is headed to Nashville this weekend to see his sis, and that makes my heart happy. And I never knew I needed a kettle until my years in the UK. Now I can't imagine life without it! Thanks for the fun link party.

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  16. Day dates: we do so much together that I'm not sure we can encapsulate it into the single word, "date." But I wouldn't have it any other way. I thank the Lord every day for His kindness in giving me a new husband when it was the time for #1 to move on to Heaven.

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  17. Happy birthday to your sister! Thanks for another fun Hodgepodge, Joyce! I enjoyed your answers and love the photos you shared! You are right... a day date is a day date if you say it is a day date!! Love it!

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  18. I'm not a dedicated tea drinker, but I totally agree with you about using a proper cup! Pretty sure I shared a pet peeve rant on a Hodgepodge once about how much I hate styrofoam cups and powdered "creamer". It's something I feel very strongly about. LOL I love your 52 day dates in 52 weeks goal! My husband and I have something kind of similar we call Super Saturdays. Basically, it's just our goal to go do something fun or explore someplace new every weekend. And it often turns out to be a date of sorts. Hope you're having a great week!

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  19. I would definitely rather eat real veggies than even try a green drink. They just look icky.

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  20. First of all, I love the title of this post. :) And I agree!! I hope you enjoy every single second with the family. I am right there with you on the green drinks…I just can’t. Autumn Skies are such a beautiful gift from the Lord. He gives us such beauty to marvel at. Happy birthday to your sister!

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  21. I loved your answers. I do like Doomscroll too. I also love the idea of 52 day dates...maybe I'll propose that to my hubby to do next year.

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  22. No green drinks for me either. Tea has to be made properly too. I'm happy with a tea bag in a mug but if we're talking a pot of tea the pot has to be warmed, the water has to be boiling and it has to sit for the right amount of time. Yep I'm a tea snob too lol. Enjoy the time with family and belated birthday wishes to your sister. I envy anyone with sisters but I do have a good selection of SILs :)

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  23. I, too, am so grateful when our daughters get sister time. Our youngest traveled to Madison recently to spend time with our oldest and her girls (while our SIL was traveling) and while I would have loved to join them I also knew that this alone time together is precious and, for all accounts, it was! I agree with you, too - day dates are what you make them! How fun to spend time reminiscing... sounds perfect!

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