Sunday, October 12, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 624

Here are the questions to this week's random fun aka The Wednesday Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog then hop back here on Wednesday (of course!) October 15th, to add your link to the party. See you there! 


1. Do you make an effort to see/hear live music? Last time you went somewhere for the live music? 

2.According to HGTV the colors of the year for 2026 are mostly decided. Top paint companies declare a color of the year, and decorators will incorporate that into their new year home and room designs. Here's what's on tap in terms of paint trends for 2026 (check out the link here to see photos)

  • Sherwin Williams-universal khaki (inspired by heavy canvas and outdoor gear)
  • Behr-hidden gem (a confident shade of teal)
  • Valspar-warm eucylyptus (a warm sliver tinted green)
  • Dutch Boy-melodious ivory (a honey tinted beige)
  • Glidden-warm mahogany (a classic brick red)
  • Krylon-matte coffee bean
  • Clark and Kensington -Hazelnut Crunch (warm reddish-brown)
  • Graham and Brown-Divine Damson (cherry red with a subtle violet undertone)
  • Dunn and Edwards-midnight garden (the green that works everywhere) 

First question-did you know there were so many different paint manufacturers? Which color on the list most appeals to you in terms of your own decorating style? Do you have plans to do any painting in your home in the coming year, and if so might you choose a color from this list? 

Now, forget painting walls, which color name appeals to you most? 

3. What's something in your life you have to do-watch-or participate in that's about as exciting as 'watching paint dry'? 

4 . Tuesday, October 14th is/was National Dessert day...did you/will you celebrate? Tell us how? What's your absolute favorite dessert. Yes, just one. I know!! 

5. Perhaps today is the day I will __________________________________. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Wednesday, October 8, 2025

A Caramel Colored Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions, add your link at the end of my post. We've had some new bloggers participating in recent weeks, so be sure you visit your neighbor on the list and leave a comment. That's what keeps the blog world spinnin'! Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond
1. 'The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.' How does this saying ring true in your own family, either the one you grew up in or the one you made? 

The saying rings pretty true both directions here. I'm a lot like my momma, and I see myself in my girls too. They're each uniquely their own person of course, but we're also alike in many ways. 

We've always said Daughter2 is my mini because she looks so much like me, but it's more than that. I wrote a post (linked here-And The Seasons They Go Round and Round) on her 30th birthday about some of the other ways we're similar. 

I wrote about my own momma too (linked here-One Of These Things Is A Lot Like The Other). 

Hmmm...I guess daughter1 never got a post of her own in this department, so I'm going to think about that and write one soon. I've always said she's a lot like me only better...softer, gentler, wiser, and definitely more coordinated-ha! 


2. Something you're nuts about these days? How about something that's driving you nuts? 

I'll reverse the questions and say what bugs first. I could write a long list of things relating to our current political climate, but let's go with people texting, face timing, or in general driving distracted.  

Something I'm nuts about these days? The weather for one. 


October skies might be my favorite and the temperature has been just right too. I love nature's gem tones and this is their season to shine. 

3. What does abundance mean to you? 

As a christian this term makes me think of the goodness of God. I love the lyrics to the song Reckless Love by Cory Asbury. '....Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God, it chases me down, fights 'til I'm found, leaves the 99, I couldn't earn it, I don't deserve it, still..You give yourself away... Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending reckless love of God...'

Here's a link to the whole song if you'd like to listen-Reckless Love 

4. Caramel apple-caramel cake-caramel corn-caramel sundae-caramel macchiatto...what's your caramel treat of choice? 

I prefer an apple dipped in caramel rather than an apple on a stick. I feel like I might lose a filling with that one. I like a bite of a caramel cake, but the icing is usually a little too sweet for me so I don't need a whole piece. I don't like flavored coffee drinks and while a sundae would be good I'm going with caramel corn. I love the mix you can buy that has half caramel corn and half cheese popcorn. The salty sweet combo is so good! 

5. What's a childhood memory that always comes to mind as the leaves start to fall? 

I'm not sure there's one single memory, but more of a feeling I have when the leaves begin to turn. I think you'd call it nostalgia. When fall rolls around I think of back to school days, my dad raking piles of leaves in the yard, trick-or-treating around the neighborhood, and my favorite holiday-Thanksgiving. 

6. Insert. your own random thought here. 

Our camellia is loaded with blooms and so pretty...



Happy Wednesday everyone! 

Tuesday, October 7, 2025

Day Datin'

Retirement is funny. We should have all this time to figure out fun places to go and new things to see, but between home maintenance-cleaning-improvement tasks that need doing, grandchildren that need grand-ing, appointments that need attending, and our various hobbies and volunteer commitments, the days fly right on by. 


Most weeks Wednesdays are a day we're both pretty free so I've declared it date day (hi hubs!). I'm trying to put a few things on the calendar for us to do together, even if it's just lunch someplace new. 


I was determined to find some fall last week so we drove about an hour from the lake to an apple orchard everyone talks about that we've never visited. When we lived in New Jersey we had a lot of orchards around us and apple picking happened every fall. I miss that so last week we made it happen. 

For starters, the day could not have been more beautiful. The sky was a bright blue, with some puffy clouds and a nice temperature for being out of doors. The orchard was just across the state line in the 'other Carolina', and sits atop a mountain, hence the name-Sky Top. 


We thought we might pick the apples ourselves, but when we stepped into their little shop and saw it loaded with bags and bags of freshly picked apples we decided to buy instead. 


We walked out into the orchard though, and wandered the property to see what all was there. 


For starters there was an apple cannon. 


We saw it in action and it was powerful. They gave you earphones to wear because it was also loud. 


There was a duck pond, some play spaces for kids to run and climb, picnic tables, and donuts right out of the cooker. There are few things better on a fall day than a warm cider donut. 


Just ask this guy. 


We bought apples, apple butter, apple cider, and some peanut brittle to take home, then headed in to the nearby town of Flat Rock for lunch. 


We'd never been to Flat Rock so relied on the internet for a lunch recommendation. We ended up at the Highland Lake Inn and Resort's restaurant- Seasons. 

The property has a long history dating back to the late 1700's, and over the years it evolved from a grist mill and private estate into a summer retreat for wealthy families. Throughout the 20th century it served as a school, camp, and Catholic retreat center and in 1985 was transformed into an inn and conference center. Today the focus is hospitality, dining, and preserving its historic charm. 

Hubs and I both had a cup of their homemade butternut squash soup and a salad, and both were delish.



Did I take a picture of my date? Nope. Just lunch lol. 

After lunch we drove about a mile down the road to check out Carl Sandburg's home. Through the years, on our treks north and south, we'd see the historic marker signs on the interstate, but we never took the time to get off the highway and see what it was all about.

The house sits above the town, and it's a little bit of a hike to get to it. There may be closer parking if you approach another way, but we were in town so parked at the bottom. 


Sandburg spent much of his life in Illinois, Wisconsin, and Michigan but moved to Flat Rock in 1945 for the more temperate climate and a better environment for his wife's prize winning goats. You can tour the house (called Connemara) which sits on more than 250 acres along with the goat farm, sheds, two small lakes, several ponds, gardens, an apple orchard and 5 miles of hiking trails. 


We started the hike up and ran into a short detour due to a bridge being out. A year later and remnants of Helene are still evident in this area. 


We got about halfway up the trail when a man walking his dog let us know the house was closed due to the government shutdown. Sigh. Next time. 


Sidebar-that's the most I've walked since May. May!! I did go back to the ortho and have a new plan for the next couple of weeks in hopes of getting on top of this. 

Anyhoo, we had a really nice day and since I didn't take a single picture of us together, or even separately, you'll have to take my word for it. 

Also I never say anyhoo in person but for some reason it comes out of my mouth here. Stay tuned for more retirement shenanigans happening every Wednesday for the next 51(ish) weeks. Dream big, right? 

Linking today with Joanne for Talking About It Tuesdays

Monday, October 6, 2025

Hello Monday

Good Monday morning friends. We've had the most glorious weather and have spent a lot of time out in it and enjoying our porches too. Here's how our weekend looked-


Friday we did some of the usual stuff that needs doing before the weekend rolls in. I picked up groceries, bought gas, made a quick stop in the drug store, and returned a library book. Hubs scrubbed the showers and did some outdoor tasks including cleaning all the outdoor lanterns, and knocking down the cobwebs from the porch ceilings. 

We left around 2 for the nearby city. We were meeting friends for a late lunch/early dinner around 3, then it was on to an evening with Tara Leigh Cobble and The Bible Recap. Her event was held in a large church and we had great seats. 


We weren't sure what to expect from the evening, but we all agreed it was very well done. For those of you who don't know, Tara Leigh hosts a daily podcast which is a read through the Bible (chronologically) and then she 'recaps' what you read that particular day. You read three or four chapters a day, and then her recap is between 5-10 minutes long. 

She's adorable in person and is so naturally funny. She's also wise and comes across as warm and genuine. There were some fun bits to start, then she spoke on Psalm 23, and then a Q & A at the end. We all enjoyed the evening. 

Saturday we slept in, I cleaned all the bathrooms, and then we hung out on the screened porch and watched some college football. The Vols had the day off, but Hunley says go Tigers! 


Also, he's not allowed on the furniture. Oops. 


Friends invited us to a wine tasting they were hosting which started at 4. The wines were all from the Napa Vineyard- Ladera, and the winemaker Dan Ladera, was there to present the wines. 


They have a great story as to how his family went from Minnesota farmers to Montana ranchers to California winemakers. Our hosts made really nice charcuterie boards and hubs and I called that dinner. 


Sunday we went to church then made a quick stop afterwards at Lowes for something hubs needs for a project here. I grabbed two big mums since we were there, but as usual I forgot to snap a picture. 


They almost made this shot. Almost. 

My daughter and I have been a little bit obsessed with these big wreath bows we've seen online but the price is ka-razy! She's crafty and made one for herself, and on Thursday I met her at Hobby Lobby to pick ribbon so she could make one for me too. She brought it to me at church and I love it! 


Once we were back home hubs vacuumed while I did some dinner prep which included an apple crisp of which I also forgot to snap a picture. It was good though! Our next door neighbors came for dinner, hubs grilled, and we had a nice time catching up in person. 


And that was the weekend. I think fall might finally be here, and I hope the sun shone for you too.  If you'd like to add a recap of your own or read what others are saying, hop over to the host blogs -Holly (Pink Lady Blog) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books)

Have a great week everyone! 

Sunday, October 5, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 623

Here are the questions to the mid-week Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here Wednesday (October 8th) to add your link to the party. See you there!  

1. 'The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.' How does this saying ring true in your own family, either the one you grew up in or the one you made? 

2. Something you're nuts about these days? How about something that's driving you nuts? 

3. What does abundance mean to you? 

4. Caramel apple-caramel cake-caramel corn-caramel sundae-caramel macchiatto...what's your caramel treat of choice? 

5. What's a childhood memory that always comes to mind as the leaves start to fall? 

6. Insert. your own random thought here. 

Thursday, October 2, 2025

Share Your Shelf-September

Hello readers, bloggers, friends, and lurkers. Do people still lurk on blogs? That used to be a thing where someone would read your blog but never comment, but I don't know if it's still a thing. For the record, I don't mind if people want to read without commenting. 

Anyway, let's talk books. It's the first Thursday of the month which means it's time to share what we read the month prior- aka September. If you'd like to add a link of your own or find out what others are reading, hop over to the host blogs (Memphis Bridges, My Joyful Life, Slices of Life, and The Other Side of the Road). 

I put a bunch of books on hold at my local library about a month ago and somehow most came in the same week. Bother. Several were only on loan for two weeks because they're new or extra popular so I tried to read those first. I'm famous for checking out books that have to go back before they're read and I was determined not to do that this month. 

I record what I've read on Goodreads and use their star system, more or less. My star system is probably on the harsh side. I'm stingy with the 5* ratings and if I give a book 5* then it's a book that's memorable for me. 

I give a lot of 3* reviews, which to me means overall a pretty good read, some flaws or cliched writing that bothered me, and while I enjoyed the read it's probably not a book I'm left thinking about later. I typically never give 1* ratings because if a book feels like a 1* book I'll mark it DNF. 

Okay, here we go-

1. Atmosphere: A Love Story by Taylor Jenkins Reid

This is one of those books that left me with mixed feelings. I love Taylor Jenkins Reid's writing style and that shines here as it does in all of her books. I really enjoyed the parts of the book that dealt with the thrill and danger of space travel, solving the problem at hand, and also just the mystery of space itself. I wanted more of that. 

I should have paid closer attention to the tag line -A Love Story, because this was definitely more love story than space tale. And it's a sapphic love story which is not my cup of tea. I didn't know that going in or I likely would not have picked this one up. 

The book centers around the character Joan Goodwin, a fictional astronaut in NASA's Space shuttle program in the early 1980's. I read that Jenkins Reid based the character of Joan on the real life astronaut Sally Ride. The story starts with a crisis (you might say disaster) involving a malfunction aboard the space shuttle.  Goodwin is working in Mission Control as the spacecraft communicator and will need to talk with the astronaut tasked with landing the damaged ship. The story then backs up and primarily focuses on the lives of the astronauts and the events that occurred in the lead-up to the disaster. 

I struggled to rate this one because I had mixed feelings when I closed the book. I read a review where the reviewer said they 'wanted more of Joan the astronaut and less of Joan the girlfriend'. I feel the same. 

2. The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters

This was our book club selection for September and received favorable reviews from all. I wasn't expecting to like this one as much as I did, because the way the story is told you have a key piece of information from the very beginning. The author did a good job filling in the details in a way that was engaging.  

The Berry Pickers is the story of a Mi'kmaq family from Nova Scotia who travel to Maine to pick blueberries in the summer of 1962. Their youngest daughter Ruthie disappears from the field one day,  and her disappearance naturally traumatizes the family left behind.  

The story is told from two perspectives. Joe is Ruthie's older brother, and at age six was the last one to see Ruthie before she disappeared. The other voice belongs to Naomi, a young woman from an affluent Maine family who grows up with an overprotective mother, and a father who is a judge by profession, and is a mostly kind but somewhat aloof father. The dual storyline worked very well. 

The Berry Pickers explores themes of family, grief, trauma, and cultural identity. My favorite read this month and I gave it four stars.  

3. Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall 

Have you ever read a book where you know from the very first page it's going to break your heart? Well that's Broken Country. You know a lot of sadness is coming your way, but you keep reading because you need to know how it all turns out in the end. 

This book has been super hyped (it's a Reese Witherspoon book club pick), and I'm always a bit leery of over hyped books. I thought the writing was excellent. The novel centers around a love triangle, and while there's obviously more to it than that, this triangle is at the heart of the book. I just really didn't care for two of the three parties involved in the triangle. While I had tremendous sympathy for Beth, I struggled with so much of her behavior which I will describe as pretty crummy, that I found her hard to like. Three stars for me. 

4. The Champagne Letters  by Kate Macintosh

I like historical fiction and really enjoyed this one. I also like champagne and we've spent some time in the champagne region of France, so the setting felt familiar.  The Champagne Letters  is a work of historical fiction set in Reims France in the 1800's, with a second but related modern day story line set in Paris and Reims. 

The storylines follow Mme. Cliquot and then a modern day Chicago woman named Natalie Taylor who has run away to Paris following her divorce. Natalie finds a collection of the Widow Cliquot's published letters in a book stall beside the Seine, and she uses these letters as inspiration for starting a new life. Her escape to Paris takes a very unexpected turn and Natalie is forced to make a choice-return home or fight for her future. 

I loved the twists in the modern day story, the setting for both, and the champagne talk. There's a movie based on the life of Widow Cliquot that was released in 2023 which I haven't watched yet, but it's on my list. I gave this one 4 stars. 

5. Culpability by Bruce Holsinger

A really interesting and original topic, one that definitely makes the reader think. The plot is centered around an accident that happens in a self-drive vehicle. Have you been in a self-drive car yet? I've been in a friend's Tesla which had this feature and I have to say it's a little freaky. 

While on their way to a lacrosse tournament in their self-driving minivan, the Cassidy-Shaw family, with 17-year old Charlie behind the wheel (but on autonomous mode), and other family members distracted by their phones, are involved in an accident with fatalities and injuries. 

Who is responsible-the distracted teen? the parents? AI? You find yourself thinking about this technology from a couple of different angles,  and the accompanying storyline where hidden secrets are revealed definitely held my interest. 

Four stars for me. 

6. Nightshade by Michael Connelly 

Hubs and I had a road trip this month and we always try to listen to something on Audible when we travel. When I asked him what he wanted to listen to he said, 'nothing educational' lol. We often listen to non-fiction or a very lengthy biography when we road trip (hey, we're a captive audience) and those can sometimes get heavy. A friend mentioned she'd just read this Michael Connelly book and enjoyed it so we opted for that. 

I have always liked his writing and loved The Lincoln Lawyer and his Bosch series especially, so knew it would be a good choice. We both enjoyed it. 

The plot centers around a disgraced LA county sheriff (Stilwell) who is sent to work on Catalina Island as part of his 'punishment'.  When the body of a woman with a streak of purple in her hair is found weighed down in the waters of Catalina Harbor Sheriff Stilwell is called into action. Besides the Jane Doe murder there are additional crimes to be solved,  including the illegal beheading of a buffalo, and the theft of a marble statue from a men's fishing club. Are the crimes connected and if so, what's the connection? 

The story unfolded at a nice pace and you were rooting for Sheriff Stilwell throughout. He's a very likable character and a new one for Connelly. I imagine and hope there will be more stories where he's featured in the future. I gave this one four stars. 

So what did you read in September? 

Wednesday, October 1, 2025

A Little Bit Country, A Little Bit Rock n' Hodgepodge

Welcome to a brand new month and another edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond

1. What's your favorite fall scent? Would we find this in or around your home right now? 

Probably cinnamon. I also love the smell of a wood fire and of freshly popped popcorn. Both feel fall-ish to me. I don't want them in candle form but I like the scents. When I buy scents I lean toward citrus, lavender or cinnamon. 

My daughter bought me this really cute lamp for my birthday and a candle to go with. The candle is a mediterranean lemon which I love. 


You set an unlit candle below the lampshade and the candle melts enough for you to get a pleasant aroma without actually lighting the candle. It's not huge and makes a nice counter light in my kitchen. 

2. October is Country Music Month...are you a fan of country music? Do you have a favorite country artist? Ever been to Nashville? In terms of lifestyle are you more country mouse or city mouse? 

We listen to a mix of music here and country is part of the mix. I like a lot of artists, both old and new. A  few favorites are George Strait, Eric Church, Luke Combs, Jason Aldean, Darius Rucker, Brooks and Dunn, and Kenny Chesney. 

I have been to Nashville more than once and like it okay. Last time I was there I thought it could use a good power wash. Just sayin'.  

I'm a country mouse who enjoys visiting the city from time to time. I've always loved big cities but the crazier the world gets the less appeal a city holds.  

3. How about 'country cooking'? (loosely defined as rich flavors, familiar foods, large portions, often fried, and often associated with the southern region of the US of A)? 

chicken and dumplings-fried chicken-shrimp and grits-biscuits and gravy-mac and cheese-fried green tomatoes-cornbread-collard or turnip greens-deviled eggs-'barbecue'-gumbo-banana pudding 

Which of the foods listed is your favorite? Any on the list you haven't tried or would say a firm no thank you to if offered? 

I like southern comfort cooking, but am not a huge fan of fried foods in general and a lot of southern dishes feature fried foods. I prefer grilled, broiled, or baked. That being said, there's nothing on the list here that I don't like. I don't love collard greens so that would be my least favorite. They're a little too bitter for my taste. My favorite on the list is shrimp and grits. Deviled eggs would be a close second. 

4. What's something that always has a positive impact on your mood? 

I suppose I could go deep here, but I'm going another way-ha! Getting my hair cut and highlighted. 

5. As we say so long to September share a noun, a verb, and an adjective that tells us something about how that month looked for you. 

Y'all know I struggle with single words so I'm going with compound words instead. Two for the price of one-

birthday bonanza, schedule-slammed, lightning fast

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I bought my first Christmas present on Tuesday. A small stocking stuffer for one of my girls. They read here so I won't say more, but I popped into a nursery/gift shop to browse their fall decor and couldn't resist a peek into their Christmas shop. 

Too early? 

Sort of. I mean I haven't even dug into fall yet so I'm definitely not ready to see decorated Christmas trees all lit up, but there they were. Right behind the pumpkins. And looking so pretty! 

So have you bought any Christmas gifts yet? Or is it just way too early to think about that? 86 days but who's counting?