May Day Wednesday Hodgepodge Vol 25

Welcome to the Wednesday Hodgepodge...link your post at the bottom of this one and enjoy hopping around to some of the other participating blogs today. After you read my answers of course!

1. Have you ever been served breakfast in bed? Did you enjoy that? If someone were serving you breakfast in bed this coming weekend what would you hope to see on the tray?

I have but not in a long long time. I enjoy the thought that goes into the act but my family has to get up pretty darn early to serve me breakfast in bed. What would I like to see on the tray? A steaming cup of coffee, french toast, some fresh fruit, and a nice piece of jewelry. Hey, it is Mother's Day!

2. What is one piece of advice you would give a new mother?

Be in the moment. Enjoy the moment. Don't spend each season of childhood wishing for the next. Enjoy the days because the years they are a-fleeting.

3. When was the last time you wanted to scream? Explain.

Well, I just wrote three paragraphs about a recent trip to the grocery store and the many frustrations I experienced there. It sounded super whiny so I deleted it and instead will just say that shopping trip about did me in. I will spare you the details. You are welcome.

4. Can you hula hoop?

No. If you saw my hips you would think surely this woman can hula hoop but I have two daughters who are miniature in size and they can both hula for hours. They barely move and that hoop just spins and spins.

5. What is something people do in traffic that really bothers you?

I think most of my pet peeves revolve around driving. If I'm only picking one I'll say people driving slow in the fast lane and people texting. Okay that's two but come on people!!

6. What do you do when people don't admit they're wrong?

Feel a sense of injustice and quietly fume. I get over things pretty quickly though.

7. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word 'fun'?

My husband.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

This picture is from my very first Mother's Day...

I remember that day...hubs was out of town on a business trip and I spent the weekend with my family. My sister had us all for lunch and this picture was taken in her backyard. Such sweetness.

This year I will be helping that tiny little thing move her furniture from one state to another. There will be sweating and steps and heavy lifting and driving and more sweating and more heavy lifting. Not the same sort of fun as my first Mother's Day but the sweetness is still there.

In fact I'd say it's even sweeter.

May Day May Day...don't miss this week's questions!

I really enjoyed participating in the A-Z challenge but am happy to once again be blogging about everyday life. I have some big stuff going on around here this week so in all likelihood I won't get to do a lot of posting. I will definitely be around for the Hodgepodge though so if you'd like to join the fun post your answers on your own blog or facebook and come back tomorrow (Wednesday) for the link. Here are this week's questions...

1. Have you ever been served breakfast in bed? Do you enjoy that? If someone were serving you breakfast in bed this coming weekend what would you hope to see on the tray?

2. What is one piece of advice you would give a new mother?

3. When was the last time you wanted to scream? Explain.

4. Can you hula hoop?

5. What is something people do in traffic that really bothers you?

6. What do you do when people don't admit they're wrong?

7. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word 'fun'?

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Zippity Doo Dah

So..the A-Z blog challenge which I so faithfully kept up with for the entire month of April ended on Saturday with the letter Z. I had a houseful of company all weekend long and have not been on my blog since last Thursday except to approve comments once or twice. I didn't want to leave the challenge unfinished but did I mention my company? I'm pooped. So today I am going to wrap up that A-Z challenge with this-

Z is for Zippity Doo Dah

aka I made it to the end of the challenge.

Whew!

I'm feeling a little overwhelmed as I have a lot to say, a very busy week, and my email inbox and google reader are overflowing. I find with blogging its hard to go too far back and do a recap and that sometimes the best thing is to just dive into the middle with all my many thoughts and hope they make sense when all is said and done. In that vein let's start with the Royal Wedding, which I thought was perfection with the exception of the attire of two princesses who shall remain nameless. Oh dear.

I got up at 4 am on Friday, made a cuppa, and sat on my sofa to watch from start to finish. I know I could have set my DVR and I did because I might want to watch some of it again, but I also wanted to see it in real time. Plus I had company coming Friday afternoon and knew I would not be able to spend the day watching tv. I loved everything about the wedding...the pomp, the pageantry, the dress, the sweet way the groom looked at his bride, the clothes, the hats, the crowds and their comments and accents and celebrating, and especially the sights and sounds of London. It was all just right and I really hope they have a long and happy married life.

Hubs had taken the day off Friday so naturally his day began with two conference calls. He was a big help later in running errands and getting the house ready for our guests. In addition our patio guys were at the house all day and they finally got the ginormous skip (dumpster) out of the driveway about thirty minutes before our first guests arrived. There are still giant piles of sand, rock, stone, and gravel in the drive but we're making progress. The weather was wonderful this weekend so we did sit on the semi-finished patio and enjoyed time with our guests while we all pretended the dirt still around the patio edge wasn't there. And we turned on our heaters since the firepit is still under construction but still, it was good to be outdoors. The fox whose nest is on the hill beside our house was busy this weekend so everyone enjoyed spotting her traipsing thru the woods and two of them running and playing together. I think all five babies are now out of the nest for good.

We had three couples visit this weekend, old friends who we hadn't seen in ages and we talked til the cows came home. Literally. Friday night we were still sitting at the dining room table at 2 am. My kids jaws just dropped because they cannot believe I could possibly be awake and talking at that hour but I was. At some point I started to realize I'd been up almost 24 hours so we called it a night-morning? and went to bed. We drank pots of coffee Saturday morning, wandered thru some nearby shops and even made a trek up to Highpoint to admire the view and the sunshine and the pretty NJ countryside. We threw hamburgers on the grill and talked some more...another very late night but we had so much to say. We all have kids of a similar age and we've all known one another since our kids were just beginning school. Now some are college graduates out in the working world, one is planning a wedding, and the rest are college students. I look around and think of our children in the third grade and all the things we talked about back then-classroom teachers, peer groups, sports teams...oh the drama. Let me just tell you it ain't nothin' like what the 20-somethings bring to the table. I am so thankful God gives us the grace we need to parent thru all of life's many seasons.

Because we'd had such a little bit of sleep this weekend hubs and I went to bed fairly early last night. I woke up this morning and read a text from my daughter asking if I'd seen the President on tv and that it was a big day. Hubs is a news hound and I cannot remember the last time we went an entire weekend without turning on any news but we did so we missed hearing the news about the death of Osama bin Laden until this morning. I pray those whose lives were devastated on that September morning find a measure of peace today. I pray the families who have lost a loved one in the resulting war also feel today their son or husband or brother didn't die in vain. And once again I will say God bless the US military, the brave men and women who quietly and courageously do their job every single day.

Yearning

The word yearn, when used as a verb, is defined as follows:

1. to have an earnest or strong desire; long for

2. to feel tenderness; be moved or attracted

Yup.

That's the word I was looking for today.

Y is for yearning

Since I am yearning for London and cannot be there in person and it's Royal Wedding Day I thought I'd do the next best thing and post some photos from the years we spent living in my favorite city in the world...Cheers!

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An X-tra special post

That might not be quite true...isn't every post here special?

Regardless, I wanted to write a little bit more about our trip to Normandy and I figured letter X would be a good time to do that. If you missed part one you'll find it here.

X is for X-tra special

There is so much to see and do in the Normandy region of France.

Much of it centers on the WW2 sites and I'll get back to that in a minute but one side trip we took that we all enjoyed was to the little town of Bayeux.

There is something quite famous known as The Bayeux Tapestry. The whole time we were en route to Bayeux hubs and my brother in law kept saying things like-

We're doing what?

We're driving an hour to stand in a queue to go see a tapestry?

Isn't that like needlepoint?

Seriously?

Whyyyyyyyy?

But we ladies who had done our pre-trip homework knew that this was most definitely something to see. The tapestry illustrates the events leading up to the Norman conquest of England in 1066. Legend says the tapestry was made by Reine Mathilde, the wife of William the Conqueror but it's more likely the tapestry was designed and woven in England. The tapestry hangs in a museum in the town center but its original home was the huge Gothic Cathedral Notre-Dame de Bayeux.

This all might sound so very very dull but it is absolutely fascinating. Even the boys agreed. The tapestry is about 230 feet long and took approximately ten years to complete. After viewing the tapestry I felt like I finally understood the chronology and characters who were key to the conquest. Let me just add that William the Conqueror and the Battle of 1066, while very very old, are still talked about pretty darn often as you travel around the UK and France. Its good to understand what all the fuss was about. Plus the town of Bayeux is so old France.

It's in the Calvados region which is also pretty well known for something else...Calvados Brandy.

Tastes like apples.

Tipsy apples but apples nonetheless.

I want to talk about the American Cemetery in Normandy before I wrap this up.

(This photo is a postcard and no credit is listed)

Really, what words does one use to describe a sight such as this or the feelings that wash over you as you stand high on a bluff overlooking a beach called Omaha? There is no looking away...no matter where you turn your eyes they will land on a row of white crosses which mark the final resting place of over 9,000 American servicemen and women. The American Cemetery at Normandy is 172 acres and free use as a permanent burial ground was granted by the government of France 'in perpetuity without charge or taxation.'

That means forever.

There is an area in the cemetery known as The Garden of the Missing where the names of over 1500 soldiers who gave their lives in the region but whose remains were never recovered or positively identified are engraved on stone tables.

The six of us walked in silence thru the cemetery and after a few minutes we met at the intersection of a row of graves.

A row like every other row.

Row upon row upon row.

We talked quietly and were commenting particularly on the age of some of these brave boys.

We looked down at the cross that happened to be in front of us.

We couldn't believe it.

The cross marked the grave of the young man from Utah whose letter we'd read that very first day in the museum at Caen. It was a distinctive name and town so there was no mistake.

Of all the graves in the cemetery we had come to stand before his.

One grave among thousands.

He didn't feel like a nameless faceless soldier.

We'd read his words, so poignantly written before he died.

We 'knew' him.

Or at least it felt like we did.

He was someone's precious son, a young bride's beloved husband.

A boy who went to war and had plans to come home and work the family farm...to raise a family of his own.

A boy whose life took a different turn.

Bravery and courage and patriotism are not just words.

They are words that require action.

Frankly I think every American should plant their feet on the soil in this cemetery for a day.

Acknowledge the sacrifice.

Let politics and rhetoric and protests fall away.

The land we live in that is so truly free might be a very different place were it not for the farm boy from Utah and all those many other sons and husbands and brothers who lay beside him in this place of unspeakable beauty and peace.

"Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point."

C.S. Lewis

This post was originally part of the 2011 A-Z April blog challenge.

Wednesday Hodgepodge Vol 24...that's a W, right?

Welcome to the Wednesday Hodgepodge.

If you happen to be visiting from the A-Z challenge you'll find today's letter under question #8. You are welcome to join the fun today or any Wednesday...just answer the questions on your own blog and then link your post at the bottom of mine.

1. What is something that bothers you if its not done perfectly?

Hmmm...I like the towels folded a certain way when they come out of the dryer. Doesn't everyone? I also like the pillows on the beds a certain way. And I like the table set a certain way. And the books on the coffee table need to go a certain way. I think that's all. At least that's all I can think of right now. In spite of how this answer sounds I'm really not nit picky.

2. What is one of your best childhood memories?

The first thing that came to mind was a trip to the circus. I know that doesn't sound like much but it was a big deal. My dad had been overseas and not long after he returned home he and my mom took all four of us kids to see the Ringling Bros. circus. I was in the 4th grade and I don't remember ever having been before that day plus we were picked up early from school which made it all the more exciting. My dad did not spend money wily nily and taking a family of six to the circus was not an inexpensive thing to do, even in 1970.

One thing all four of us kids remember from that day was that my dad didn't seem to say no to anything. We had cotton candy and ice cream and cracker jacks...whatever we asked for he said sure! All four of us kids remember this day as special and count it as one of our happiest childhood memories.

I think about that day sometimes and wonder if kids today (my own included) still feel like a simple outing is truly special. In general I think parents today are much more indulgent (third graders with cell phones?) and I know we had to work hard to save certain things and experiences for our girls as they were growing up so they would feel like special treats.

3. Do you plan to watch the Royal Wedding and when was the last time you wore a hat?

Well of course.

I wore a baseball hat to the grocery store the other weekend since it was early and I hadn't done my hair yet. Kind of like a disguise. And I lived in a hat this winter because hello, winter was brutal and only ended here about a week ago.

I last wore a fancy shmancy hat to an English tea hosted by my women's club in the UK. So fun! I miss these girls.

4. Where do you fall in the birth order in your family? Do you think this has influenced your personality?

I'm the third of four children and I think there is something to birth order. Typically middle children are flexible, diplomatic, competitive, peacemaker...those all fit.

Hubs is a first born and common traits among first borns are they're movers and shakers, natural leaders, perfectionists, assertive, and driven. Check.

When

I taught kindergarten I could generally tell who was a first born, who had older siblings, and who was an only child. Not criticizing, just saying I think certain characteristics hold mostly true when it comes to birth order.

5. Where do you think you spend most of your money?

That's easy. University tuition. When daughter1 started uni in 2006 someone turned on the money faucet and it has been running, not dripping, definitely running steadily ever since. We're on the home stretch now though!

Lately home improvement is getting in on the action too.

6. When you need to confront someone would you rather communicate in person, by phone, by email or by letter? Why?

Oh cringe. I hate confrontation (see question #4). Can't we all just get along? I guess it depends on what the confrontation is all about...I would go for an email if I could get away with it. If I can't then that means its probably a conversation that needs to happen in person.

7. Dodgeball, freeze tag, kickball or jump rope? You have to pick one.

Definitely not jump rope. Women over a certain age don't need to be jumping rope. Or jumping period. Just sayin'. I'd choose kickball.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

This will be my last A-Z challenge post included as my random thought in the Hodgepodge. Next Wednesday we're into May and the A-Z challenge is over. I'll be back to my normal random in this slot next week. Lucky you.

W is for Waddesdon Manor

Waddesdon Manor is a magnificent country house set in the village of Waddesdon in the UK. It was not all that far from the village where we lived so it made for a nice day trip and it was a pretty spot to take visitors. The French chateau style house was built in the late 1800's for Baron Ferdinand de Rothschild and since the late 1950's has been in the hands of the National Trust.

If you saw the movie The Queen some of the interiors and gardens of Waddesdon were used for the Buckingham Palace scenes. The house contains 45 rooms and its Victorian garden is considered one of the best in Britain. There is even an aviary stocked with species that were once a part of Ferdinand's collection. I've been to Waddesdon often so I feel like I can call him Ferdinand.

As we were leaving Waddesdon after our very first visit we saw this...

Oh that English countryside.

Sigh.

W is for wow.

Vacuous...Vapid...Verbose? That's it! Verbose!

It's still April so you know what that means.

It means if you are here looking for this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge questions you must first read the A-Z blog challenge letter of the day entry.

You'll find the hodgepodge questions at the end.

You aren't planning to skip the letter of the day portion of this post, are you?

I thought not.

V is for Virginia

More specifically Williamsburg but I have something else in mind for the letter W. I ran across some photos from a trip we took to Williamsburg way back when and they were too cute not to include here somewhere. I've just spent a weekend with my girls and they are not so different today from the sweet things in these photos. Plus, my blog brain is a little bit tired after all the weekend sugar fun and since I have a few more letters to get through and the Hodgepodge to complete I figure cute will have to do.

We write what we know and sometimes we assume everyone reading has a reference point from which to picture our words. That isn't always the case. If you live west of the Mississippi or outside the US then you may never get to see Williamsburg Virginia or have any idea what would make it a trip worthy destination. I've written alot about how much history is tucked into every village in the UK but America is not without its own amazing story and Virigina is a big part of that tale.

In 1607 the Jamestown Settlement was established by some English colonists on the Virginia peninsula.The very first meeting of a representative government group in the colonies was held at the Jamestown Settlement. I know my husband is smiling as he reads this because daughter1 and a friend had an assignment in grade 5 to create a model of the Jamestown Settlement and let's just say that when the final grade came home hubs wanted to know if he'd gotten an A. It is possible the two dads may have gotten just a teensy bit too involved with this particular school assignment. ahem.

Moving on...more settlements popped up along the James River and eventually a spot known as Middle Plantation was established on higher ground between the James and York Rivers. Jamestown kept burning so eventually the capital was moved to Middle Plantation. Okay so I may have omitted some details but that's my own Cliffs notes version of Virginia history. The college of William and Mary was established beside Middle Plantation and did you know Thomas Jefferson and John Marshall are both graduates of this school? Middle Plantation was eventually renamed Williamsburg in honor of King William III and it wasn't until sometime during the Revolutionary war that the capital was moved to Richmond.

We lived in Richmond for a few years. That's another town packed with charm and history and worth a visit if you're interested in taking a colonial trail tour.

You do stop here for travel tips don't you?

Anyway, back to Colonial Williamsburg...the town is considered an interpretation of a colonial city with some buildings being original and others being reconstructed copies. Interpreters work, dress, and talk as they did in colonial times. My girls were a bit obsessed with costumes and the 'olden days' when they were young and they absolutely loved our visit to Colonial Williamsburg.

Pretty sure whenever you see stocks you have to put yourself inside and take a photo.

We bought the girls hats and rented dresses for the day.

Be still my heart.

That's a colonial expression isn't it?

It's still useful.

It must have been 105 degrees in the shade so they definitely got a feel for the pre-ac days of the 1600's...

When I see something like this I'm so grateful I live in the 21st century.

I'm not sure I was cut out to be a colonist.

Did I ever tell you about the time I was on a tour with a group of American Women in the UK and our guide referred to Americans as 'the colonists'?

I think he was kidding.

People working in the town who are in costume spoke to the girls as if they were actually living there in colonial times and they loved that. If your girls are into the American Girl Dolls there is a Felicity tour around Williamsburg that might be fun. And because kids sometimes need to mix the educational stuff with the just plain fun stuff Water Country USA is just down the road and its awesome.

Several commenters have asked how we get so many family photos of all of us together when we travel and btw that is not hubs and I in costume in that last picture. I think hubs will want me to make that point clear. Anyway, a few people want to know who takes all the pictures. It helps a lot that hubs is not shy and has never met a stranger. We usually try to swap picture taking duties with other travelers...you know, I'll take your picture if you'll take ours.

This works well most of the time but I can't say it works all of the time. We asked a young man to take our picture in front of the Governor's Palace in Williamsburg.

Here is the photo-

I know the palace is around there somewhere.

And now, back to present day and the questions for this week's Hodgepodge.

See you back here tomorrow (Wednesday) to link our answers-

1. What is something that bothers you if it is not done perfectly?

2. What is one of your best childhood memories?

3. Do you plan to watch the Royal Wedding and when was the last time you wore a hat?

4. Where do you fall in the birth order in your family? Do you think this has influenced your personality?

5. Where do you think you spend most of your money?

6. When you need to confront someone would you rather communicate in person, on the phone, by email or by letter? Why?

7. Dodge ball, freeze tag, kickball or jump rope? You have to pick one.

8. Insert your own random thought here.