1. How often do you check the weather? How do you check the weather?
If you read here then you know I'm a little bit obsessed with the weather. It may surprise you to know that although I comment on the weather often I don't check it multiple times a day or even every day. I sometimes check the forecast online and now that I have an iphone I use my trusty app. Most of the time though? I step outside, look at the sky, and make up my own weather report.
2. Since this is Volume 84 of the Wednesday Hodgepodge, and since I got married in 1984, and since I'm attending a wedding this weekend, it only seems right to post something related here.
"Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always continue to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of vexation; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life." Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice
Agree or Disagree? Why?
Oh but this is complex isn't it? I'm going to break it apart...I don't believe happiness is ever entirely a matter of chance, in marriage or anywhere else. We can always choose to be happy or not happy.
The second part of this quote implies that knowing a person well or hardly at all makes no difference. Either way you'll have 'vexation'. (By the way, I'm going to start using that word because I love it) All marriages contain a certain amount of vexation. I think there's less of it if you know the person well before taking the plunge. Even when you know your intended very well before you marry, once you're hitched you grow and age and change and new things will pop up along the way and 'vex' you. That's why we take vows... for better or worse, in sickness and in health, in vexation and delight.
That last bit isn't in the 'official' version but maybe it should be.
3. Do you like to dance? Have you ever taken dance lessons?
I love to dance. I'm not a great dancer but my hubs is so that makes me better than I actually am. In the scheme of life its a small thing but it is one of the things I love about my husband. I think we can agree that not all men are great dancers. I took ballet classes as a young girl and I've done some Zumba although I'm not sure we can call that dancing. At least not when I do it.
4. Fresh from the oven peach pie or homemade peach ice cream. Pick one.
Homemade peach ice cream.
I know some people will combine the two answers but if I'm having peach pie then the ice cream needs to be vanilla.
5. Should people accept unfairness and learn to make the best of it?
Another toughie slides in on the heels of pie and ice cream.
I actually started to answer this question and it took on a life of its own. I scrapped that and regrouped to say just this-it depends on what is meant by unfairness.
That word is all wrapped up in perception and in almost every situation I can think of, what seems fair to one person will be deemed unfair by another. I want my children to be resourceful, compassionate, and optimistic no matter what life throws at them. Should we accept injustice and cruelty in this world? Those words are commonly associated with basic human rights and my answer would of course be absolutely not.
On the other hand, the words fair/unfair in today's vocabulary are more often linked to situations where person A is whining because he/she feels entitled to whatever person B has regardless of how little or how much they did to earn it or whether or not they can even afford it. I guess I won't get all soapboxy here but I do have some opinions about the declining work ethic in America.
6. The top five all time summer blockbuster movies (released between May and August and grossing at least 100 million dollars) are Jaws, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Star Wars (the original), Ghostbusters, and E.T. Which one's your favorite?
I liked all of these except Ghostbusters which, in my opinion, was just okay. Great song though! Star Wars may look a little dated viewed thru the jaded lens of 2012 but when it first came out people couldn't stop talking about the amazing special effects.
All that being said-E.T. is my favorite. Help those in need and love unconditionally. Still a pretty good message for 'kids' of all ages.
7. If given the chance, would you like to visit the moon?
My initial response is no. That's almost always my first response when you ask me to try something new. I've learned though, that you miss a lot when you leap to no right off the bat. It's best to at least visit the maybe option before you discount a potential adventure. Most of the time I have to be talked into the fun, especially the scary kind.
So here's how it would probably go- I'd say no thanks, but hubs would give me a pep talk and convince me it would be fun, and he'd promise to do any and all work involved, and would even carry the jumbo sized bottle of Dramamine I'd require, and next thing ya know... I'm on my way to the moon.
8. Insert your own random thought here.
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We share a love of words, summer camp, and obviously parents with the same idea about how to name a baby girl.

















