Tuesday, April 21, 2026

Home On The 'Range'

I am definitely winging the April A-Z challenge aka writing the posts the day before, but I'm still here so that's something. It's been kind of fun to think about the things I keep and try to match them with each day's letter.  Here's today's-

Day 18-R is for Recipes

How did you learn to cook? Well, first I suppose I should ask do you cook? I'm always surprised when I meet someone who says they don't cook. How do they eat? Lots of take out apparently, but that would be really tough where I live. 

I learned to cook by watching and helping my mama cook. And she learned to cook by watching and helping her mama, and my girls learned to cook by watching and helping me. I'm enjoying doing some simple cooking now with my grands and I hope they learn to cook by helping too. 


Circle of life. 

Growing up we rarely ate out. We were a family of six and dining out was a real treat. My mom cooked dinner pretty much every night and she was an excellent cook. I don't know if she started out that way, but her mom (my grandma) was also an excellent cook so I imagine she came into her marriage with some kitchen skills. 

One of my first 'cooking' assignments at home was making salad dressing. Good Seasons Italian which didn't involve any actual cooking, but you did need to read the directions, measure, and mix, all of which are a part of cooking. We had salad every night because my mom was ahead of her time in terms of healthy meals. She made almost everything from scratch too. 

When I was a young wife finding my way in my own kitchen I quite often called my mom mid-recipe to ask a question or  confirm some note written on the instructions. My own girls do the same and I love it.

Circle of life. 

I have always loved cookbooks and still enjoy browsing them for inspiration. I know when it comes to cooking we're all about the internet now, and of course I use that too. But there's something about holding a recipe card in my hand and thinking about the person who shared it with me, remembering when I've eaten the dish and the event or occasion it's associated with, that makes the cards feels extra special. 


I have a nice collection of cookbooks but my most consulted is the binder filled with hand written cards, recipes primarily from my mom's kitchen, but also from my sisters, friends, neighbors, and co-workers.  I refer to this collection so often that the binding is coming loose and I need to move the pages to a new book. 

I wish I had more recipes written in my mom's hand, but most of the time I would copy the recipe while she was cooking, or she'd tell it to me and I'd transcribe. 


A few years ago for Christmas I put all of our family holiday recipes in binders for my daughters. I wrote those recipes out by hand and it was a true labor of love. 

I won't part with my favorites. They're keepers. And now I feel the urge to make my mama's blueberry pie. 

Linking today with Joanne for Talking About It Tuesdays

14 comments:

  1. Love this! My mom didn't really want me in the kitchen. She had her favorites that she liked to cook because she liked to eat them, but I wouldn't say she was a passionate cook. My mom's mom never cooked that I saw but my dad's mom was the southern cook that did fried chicken, mashed potato, apple pie. My Dad talked about her cooking all the time. She taught me a few things.
    I pretty much learned with Tom as my guinea pig.
    I was in a rut but I'm semi-inspired again.
    I agree with you - you can't rely on take-out. I hate the waste of paper products, too. It's Earth month! I have a post coming Thursday but honestly if it takes going to a little more expensive grocery or buying a little more expensive foods to keep me from getting takeout or going out as much then I think that's a win.

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  2. I rarely cook, and I don’t get takeout (too expensive). I mostly make salads and sandwiches, and I also eat a lot of fruit, yogurt, and cereal. I just can’t be bothered cooking for one person…

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  3. Loved this post. I can't say I learned to cook from my mom, because I simply wasn't interested in learning. I much preferred being outdoors or doing sports. Also, my mother never used a recipe, and the tad of this and that just never stuck with me. As cooking has never been something I loved doing, sharing it didn't come naturally either. Now, reading about your joy in doing so makes me regret that a bit.

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  4. We went through a spell of having McDonald's on a Friday for the kids - they all had swimming lessons but of course not at the same time so by the time they were all done they were hungry and it was just easier but generally I cooked. Moving forward when we were both working full time we'd often have a Chinese takeaway on Friday as neither of us wanted to cook at the end of a long week. Now Hubby does most of the day to day cooking although I often do more of the planning than he does but I do enjoy cooking for occasions and when we go away with our big family crowd it will definitely be me doing the planning!

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  5. I was also never interested in cooking growing up and my mom was gone by the time I would have really liked to express my gratitude and learn from her. I love that you put together recipe binders for your daughters! I’m sure they cherish them!!

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  6. A wonderful post. The only time we ate out growing up was if we went to Knott's Berry Farm or Disneyland. Our pop would bring home pizza once in a while and that was the only time we had soda. I took a home economics cooking glass in junior high and learned a lot there. Mostly I learned by doing after we were married. Love the books you made for your daughters! I like how you keep those old recipe cards, too. Cheers!

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  7. I love this post! We also didn't go out to eat much growing up. I don't think it was as popular or common back then. I don't really remember helping my mom cook dinner, but I sure remember baking a lot - cookies, cakes, pies, and frostings all homemade. My mother and I had a difficult relationship at times, but I truly cherish the memories in the kitchen. I also love cookbooks, although I try not to buy them as much now. And I have a binder filled with family and internet recipes. I bet your daughters are wonderful cooks!

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  8. You get to cook in beautiful kitchens!!

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  9. I loved this post, Joyce! I do cook, and I enjoy cooking for a crowd. Not so much just for myself. I treasure the recipes I have, written by my mom, grandmas, and other family & friends. I also treasure the few church lady cookbooks that have recipes from my mom and grandmoms. I know your girls treasure the holiday recipes you gave to them. Blessed!! xo

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  10. I didn't cook so much as defrost and warm up.

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  11. I'm not sure I have anything in my mother's handwriting which is sad! She was a good cook. I love to cook and learned a lot by trial and error. My mother-in-law also taught me a lot.

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  12. I love to cook and I have some handwritten recipes from my great grandmother and grandmother that I've tried to preserve in plastic covers... those are precious to me. I also have done a few cookbooks myself and keep a recipe blog. Maybe you have heard of Crackerberries Kitchen ? Anyways...recipes and cookbooks are one of my favorites too.
    Cheers,
    Barbie

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  13. Your posts in this series are so touching, Joyce! I love learning more about your history and all the things you "keep" and hang on to. This post reminded me of cooking with my mom, my daughters and now my Littles - full circle moments for sure! It also reminded me of a cookbook I gave my daughter at the bridal shower her future in-laws hosted for her. I had compiled special recipes that she loved - her grandma's Easter ham balls, her day care provider's tater tot hot dish, her uncle's 4th of July puppy chow and so many more. I wrote all the recipes (30 of them) by hand and included a brief history of each. I'm happy to say, the cookbook is used weekly to this day!

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  14. I just love this. I wasn't interested in learning to cook when I was growing up. Now I'm kicking myself and teaching myself Slovak cooking by myself. I wasn't interested in watching my parents or aunts. They're gone now. It's also hard to cook for just one so since I'm loving cooking in mid life I share with my neighbors.
    Visiting today from Talking About It Tuesday.

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