Wednesday, April 22, 2026

A Sweetheart Of A Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge and another letter in the April A-Z Blog Challenge. You'll find my entry for letter S in today's random thought-question #6. 

If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. Comments make planet earth feel a whole lot friendlier. 


From this Side of the Pond

1. April 22nd is Earth Day...what's the most 'out of this world' place on earth you've ever visited? Tell us something about it. 

I could take this in a couple of directions, but the first place that popped into my head was Dartmoor. 

It felt like we were the only people on earth. 

This was our holiday rental, and when we were given driving directions they were very light on specifics. We were concerned we might not find it- 


Not to worry...we found it ha!

2. A favorite quote, verse, or song lyric with the word earth in it? 

One of my favorite verses-

"I lift up my eyes to the mountains-
 where does my help come from? 
My help comes from the LORD, 
the Maker of heaven and earth." 
Psalm 121:1-2 

I love the older King and Country song that references this Psalm too-

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3. What's the most trivial thing about which you have a strong opinion? 

This is hard because it seems there are many inconsequential things about which I hold strong opinions. My list would include how the dishwasher is loaded, half-and-half in my coffee, people poking along in the passing lane, and of course grammar, or rather it's improper use. 

Is a strong opinion about something trivial the same thing as a pet peeve? It feels like it. 

Is grammar trivial? I vote no. 

4. What's your most commonly used kitchen utensil or tool? What's the last thing you made using that tool? 

The most common would probably be a spatula which I use pretty much every day. I use my garlic press a lot, most recently for a marinade I made yesterday. 

5. Marilyn (Memphis Bridges) gave me a great book of 3000 questions, and I'm going to try to use one in our Hodgepodge every week. Here is today's - What is your greatest extravagance? 

We added a waterfall to our backyard and that still feels somewhat extravagant. I'm having my hair done on Hodgepodge Day and while I consider it a necessity the cost makes it feel a lot like an extravagance. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I'm using the random space for today's entry in the April A-Z Challenge. My theme this year is The Things We Keep: An A-Z of Ordinary Objects. 

Day 19-S is for Sweetheart 

While my hubs is far from ordinary, and also not an object, he is the object of my affection so how's that for clever? 

I was actually annoyed with him when I wrote these answers on Tuesday, but I got over it because that's what you do when you're married. You squabble sometimes. You might also sulk (briefly) or seek a little space, but at some point you soften your heart and sort it out. 

You embrace the new mercies we are given every single morning.

I know not every story unfolds the same way, but in our case we’ve continued to choose each other for more than  40 years. Through storms and smooth sailing, in sickness and in strength, in sweetness and strain, we're in it together. Side by side. Steady in all the ways that matter. 



My sweetheart and me.

33 comments:

  1. Hi Joyce, I like that Bible verse you chose. That is a cute picture of the two of you! I agree with what you said. I say it is by the grace of God to be married through it all. He shows us grace and we must do the same. Not always easy, but so important. We are going on 52 years this summer. Enjoy the rest of your week!

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  2. Great pictures of you and your sweetheart! Waterfall is a good answer but honestly it's one of those things that if it brings you joy and you can swing it, why not? I've not heard that King and Country song- I'll have to listen to it. Thanks for the link up :).

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  3. Dartmoor is such a stunning place to visit, I can just imagine your worry trying to find your holiday rental. They're not good on signposts there. hehehe
    One of the many reasons we don't have a dishwasher is because I know it would cause too many arguments with how it is loaded.
    Aww! That is sweet about what you wrote about your sweetheart. Lovely photos.

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  4. I nearly put spatula too! Truth be told there were so many kitchen tools/items that I use on a daily basis that could have easily made the list. It was hard to narrow it down to just one.

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  5. Awww, you make a great team! Dartmoor looks so cool! I almost said spatula! I agree on the waterfall; I would like a water feature on my patio, too. I had hair yesterday and yes, it hurts to pay that price but it's necessary!

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  6. Great picture of you and Tim!! I put spatula too!

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  7. I enjoyed your answers today! That picture of the house in Dartmoor is incredible; so is that landscape. I would have felt the same way, like I was the only one on earth. I hope you have a great day! Thanks for hosting us each week.

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  8. My wooden spatula was my chosen kitchen utensil too- ha! Love the pics of you and your hubby- just beautiful :)

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  9. Dartmoor does look out of this world, but in such a beautiful way! What a wonderful place to visit!
    I also have some very strong opinions about half-and-half in my coffee and about grammar.
    Absolutely loved your random thought and what you wrote about your sweetheart.
    Have a great week!

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  10. That place does look so remote! I used the same verses including the Earth! The waterfall is a most peaceful extravagance and seems well worth the addition to your yard. I hope the hair appointment is relaxing and a good day for you!

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  11. You found lots of great S's to support your choice of Sweetheart for the letter S, sweet! That is a verse to calm us in any storm for sure. BTW: You have a typo in it, you wrote life instead of lift. I knew you'd want to know. Love the Dartmoor photos and the hideaway you stayed in! Glad you found it. Enjoy your fresh 'do'!

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    1. Thank you!! I corrected that. You're so right...it would have made me crazy to see it much later.

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  12. Great post! a fave scripture and song of mine too!!
    oh my...a waterfall in the backyard..that is pretty extravagant. That would never pass permit here in our town! hahah
    Loved your letter S post too. Mine will have to wait..hodgepodge is done but i'm leading a hike today in the lower high peaks region of the Adirondacks and I need to leave soon..it's 8 AM here so hopefully my S post will get done once I'm home and showered!

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  13. 40 years is great! I also said my spatula.

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  14. How precious you and your sweetheart are!! Some really great questions here today and I will say, that your thoughts on #3 are my thoughts as well.. I've not been to Dartmoor but it looks so pretty there. So many beautiful places in this world that I continue to hope to see...have a wonderful day Joyce.

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  15. I had to laugh at your husband being a thing to keep. LOL. And I also said spatula! I feel like there's just always something to use it for.

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  16. So cute photos of you and your sweetie! Grammar is definitely not trivial. That was going to be my answer:) You have to have the prettiest backyard ever!! Happy Hodge Podge day to you -

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  17. Spatula was the other gadget I had in mind. ;-)
    I love your waterfall.
    I have a feeling you might find grammar mistakes in my posts, I am not all that good with grammar.
    xo

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  18. Sweet post and I love your honesty - marriage is not always easy.

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  19. I would've been worried about finding that rental too! Beautiful pictures!

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  20. Wow, that is a beautiful and amazing place where you stayed. I love the verse and song you shared. Thanks for sharing it. I could agree with the trivial things you listed. I think we use a spatula the most for eggs. I would love a waterfall in our yard. They are so relaxing to listen to. I love your A-Z answer today. God Bless.

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  21. I loved the Scripture verse you chose. And I agree, grammar is most certainly NOT trivial!

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  22. I'll give this a whirl:
    1. Most "out of this world?" Most anywhere in Iceland. If you've seen north of the Wall in Game of Thrones, that would be it (it was filmed in Iceland).
    2. Favorite quote: "Do not go gentle into that good night." Yes, I am THAT stubborn.
    3. Most trivial thing? It's "Smokey Bear," NOT "Smokey THE Bear."
    4. Most common kitchen tool? Microwave
    5. Greatest extravagance? Trip to Argentina in business class.
    6. Random thought? I believe cottage cheese really IS cheese.

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  23. Aww, I love the throwback photo along with the new photo of you and your husband. We didn't ever go to Dartmoor- so beautiful!

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  24. Sweet photo of you and your husband both before and current.

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  25. Love the photo of you and your husband. 40 years, wonderful! Love your quote. Also a favourite of mine. I do love Psalms. Ive joined for the first time. Thank you for this lovely link up.

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  26. Correct grammar is not trivial! lol. I love the Dartmoor pics and yes driving around there is not for the faint hearted. Lovely pics of you and your husband.

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  27. Wow to Dartmoor!! Good golly, I might have been just a little afraid! I don't think I've ever been in a place that looks that remote! Loved the photos of you and your hubs! It is a blessing when we find our soul mate. Thanks for another fun Hodgepodge, Joyce!! xo

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  28. I found a way to squeeze in a HodgePodge with A - Z, too. Yay us!! I had to look up Dartmoor. I figured it was abroad and should have remembered you lived for a time in England. It does look very isolated and somewhat like the middle of nowhere. But beautiful.
    Love the photos of you and your sweetheart, both yesterday and today. You are a precious couple. I think surviving the storms makes the smooth sailing all the sweeter. Bravo on choosing each other over and over.
    Maybe you have already shared pictures of the waterfall but would appreciate another one. I bet the sound of the water tumbling down is very soothing. Enjoy that bit of extravagance. I am sure it will be wonderful for your health just being out there beside it!!

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  29. Dartmoor looks amazing! And grammar is NOT trivial!!! I have strong grammar opinions too :)

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  30. I love this and your answers..

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  31. Oh also....I would love a waterfall...dreamy

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  32. I love all the ""s" adjectives and adverbs you used to describe you and your sweetheart and your enduring love! 💕

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