Thursday, February 5, 2026

Share Your Shelf-January

It's the first Thursday of the month which means it's time to join with Joanne (My Slices of Life) in sharing what we read the month prior. Here's how my January looked-


Climbing To The Sun by Shelley Burchfield 



This work of historical fiction was our book club's January selection. The author, Shelley Burchfield, lives here and her novel is set in a nearby town. We all enjoyed recognizing and reading about familiar landmarks, towns, and the freed-slave settlement most of us hadn't known about prior to this book. Shelley, along with another well known local author, will be speaking at an event later this month and I look forward to attending. 

Set in 1928 South Carolina Climbing To The Sun tells the story of Callie Beechum, a young herbalist who owns a shop in the town of Pickens, and makes a living treating people with plant based medicine and herbal therapies. Her life is turned upside down when she aids the people living in a freed-slave settlement known as Liberia (a real place not far from where I live) in the Blue Ridge Mountains. Her decision to help the residents of Liberia angers the wrong people in town, people who know a secret about Callie, and who threaten her livelihood and her very life. 

Themes of race, prejudice, family secrets, and resilience are explored in this very well written novel. Four stars for me. 

Far From The Madding Crowd  by Thomas Hardy


Still reading a classic piece of literature every month and in January it was Thomas Hardy's Far From The Madding Crowd. I landed on this one after a guest pastor at our church referenced a small passage from it in a message. There's an event early in the book where a shepherd discovers his overly enthusiastic dog has led part of his flock over the edge of a cliff, and then in true sheep fashion the others followed suit.  There's a very real metaphor to be found here for life in America right now, but I'll stay on point. I'm sure you can figure it out. 

In Far From The Madding Crowd (a title Hardy uses somewhat ironically) a flighty young woman learns her actions have consequence, and I will say right off the bat, the beautiful Bathsheba Everdeen is not the most likable of female characters. Set in 1800's Victorian England, this is the story of Bathsheba and the three very different suitors she attracts. They include a sheep farmer, a handsome Sergeant, and a prosperous older bachelor. 

As I say at the conclusion of every classic I read, the language reels me in and keeps me reading. 


The Night the Lights Went Out by Karen White


Newly divorced Merilee Talbot Dunlap moves to a new town with her children, hoping for a fresh start. She forms an unexpected friendship with her elderly landlady, Sugar Prescott, and the two women bond over shared trauma and long-buried secrets. Meanwhile, Merilee forms a friendship with another mother at her children’s school, unaware the woman has an agenda of her own.  When a man dies under suspicious circumstances and Merilee becomes the prime suspect, her past threatens to destroy her future. 

I saw much of the ending coming fairly early on, plus this one went a little off the rails in terms of believability for me. I gave it three stars. 


The Sideways Life of Denny Voss by Holly Kennedy



Denny Voss is a 30 year old developmentally delayed man who lives in Minnesota with his mother, Nana-Jo, and his blind and deaf Saint Bernard, George. Denny has a sister named Lydia he rarely sees and a cousin Angus who lives next door. Denny is gentle, sometimes stubborn, and sings the theme song to Toy Story when he feels too much pressure or anxiety in life. He makes a living clearing roadkill from the highway with his cousin. 

When the local mayoral candidate is murdered Denny is arrested and charged with the crime. His lawyer brings in a therapist, Dr. Herald, to try and learn more about Denny's life. In talking with Dr. Herald about his recent and not so recent past many secrets are revealed and these secrets will impact the outcome of the trial. 

The story is told in Denny's first person point of view and that takes some getting used to. Early on I found it a little bit wearing, but as the plot moved along I settled in and in hindsight would say it was the right way to tell his story. 

Four stars for me 


When the Cranes Fly South  by Lisa Ridzen 

One of my favorite recent reads. A poignant, heartbreaking yet beautiful story of an old man, his beloved dog, and his son all trying to come to terms with the struggles and frustrations of aging, of family relationships, friendship, and what our life's journey look's like in hindsight. 

This book feels so real. The author is Swedish and the book is a best seller there. The storytelling is so well done and the author shows great sensitivity in writing about something we'll all face. I found myself thinking about my aging mother and mother-in-law, and my own self aging too. 

Bo is an elderly man living alone with his dog, Sixten. His wife, Fredrika, now lives in a care home and no longer recognizes him or their son, Hans. Bo’s days are shaped by visits from the care team, occasional calls from his best friend Ture, and now and then visits from Hans. In the quiet moments, of which there are many, he retreats into memories of the life and family he once had.

As Bo struggles to maintain his independence and resist outside interference, it becomes clear he is no longer coping. Hans grows increasingly concerned, and when he suggests Bo give up Sixten, Bo’s determination to cling to the life he knows hardens. His dependence on others as his physical body no longer cooperates with what his brain wants him to do is challenging for both Bo and Hans and is oh so relatable. 

Five stars for me. 

If you've read something great recently send it my way. And hop over to Joanne's blog if you want to see what others read in January. 

Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Loving The Hodgepodge

Welcome to February and this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post then go say hi to your neighbor there. Here we go-

From this Side of the Pond

1. The Winter Olympics kick off on Friday, February 6th...on a scale of 1-10 how excited are you? (1= eh and 10=watching every event all day every day). What's your favorite Winter Olympic sporting event? 

I love watching the Olympics, summer and winter both. I won't watch all day every day, but I will watch a lot, so giving myself a 7. 

I especially enjoy the love of country and sense of patriotism we typically see and feel at the Olympics. Recently it seems the press want athletes to bad mouth America and I appreciate those who say without hesitation they are proud to represent the USA. 

I enjoy all of the events and will watch whatever happens to be on when I'm available to watch. My favorites are probably alpine skiing, figure skating, hockey, and ski jumping. I like the sledding events too, so yeah, pretty much all of it. 

We stood at the top of the ski jump in Innsbruck and I'm just gonna say people who do this sport are a little bit crazy. Who went first? 

2. In other sporting news, the Superbowl (American football's championship game) will be played on Sunday, February 8th.  So tell us...what's your superpower?

I asked this question last February. Oops. Oh well, perhaps those of you who answered then will have discovered there's some new superpower you now possess. Last year I said napping and emptying the dishwasher, which honestly is kind of sad.  

This time around I'm going to say being a Nana. I love it, love spending time with my grands, love spoiling them when I can, love praying for them daily and for their parents too, and it's a huge part of who I am in this season of life. 

3. Are you a romantic? 

In a word yes, although the world is smudging my normally rose colored glasses somewhat here lately.

I read this description of what it means to say a person might be dubbed a romantic-'someone who expresses strong feelings of love and affection, often through thoughtful gestures...has a deep appreciation for emotional connection and beauty...sometimes holding idealistic views about love.' 

That fits. Mostly.  I'm not sure I'd say I'm idealistic about love. I think love within a marriage requires a daily choice to care for and nurture the relationship, and there's nothing idealistic about that. I do believe happily ever after is possible, but I don't think you get there by happenstance. 

4. Blue cheese-yay or nay? How about feta? If you said yes to one or both, what's a dish you like that calls for one of these? 

I like both, but wouldn't go so far as to say I love both. I definitely like blue cheese on a cheese board, but I don't order blue cheese salad dressing. I prefer Ranch style dressing with blue cheese crumbles. I like feta in small amounts. I love a Greek salad and Greek food in general, which often includes some feta. 

5. What's more important-doing what you love or loving what you do? 

One of those trick questions I see. 

I think both matter, but I'm going to say loving what you do is the more important side of the equation. It's great to do the things you love, if you're fortunate to have work or circumstances that feed your creativity and your God-given gifts, but sometimes that isn't an option. In that case it's more important to find the silver lining, the bright spot, the upside in what you have to do. There always is one. That's me. The romantic. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

February is the month of ❤️...
                                                    

"Love must be a light as much as a flame." Henry David Thoreau

Monday, February 2, 2026

It's A Winter-ful Life

Hello friends and hello Monday. Linking with Holly (Pink Lady) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books) today for their weekend catch up blog hop. 

So. It snowed. It has been below freezing all weekend long. In South Carolina. Not cool. 

I mean it was actually really really cool, but that's not cool. We Palmetto people like our warm temps and life lived outdoors and occasionally a boat ride mid-winter. Instead we have an icy driveway, frosty fingertips, and lots of time spent at home. I'm not complaining (much) because I love cozy at home days, but I also love getting out and about, and we haven't had a lot of that these past two weekends. 

Wait. Friday we were out and about. Hubs and I had a date. It wasn't a day date, but it definitely still counts. 

Let's back up and capture the whole weekend. There was still a fair amount of ice around all week following last weekend's ice storm, but I could get in and out of the driveway without a problem. We had snow in the forecast so I re-stocked groceries on my way home from my volunteer slot on Thursday afternoon. We went out to dinner that evening with some neighbors we hadn't spent time with in a long while and that was really nice. 

Friday morning I had an appointment to have my hair cut and then my stylist also worked her magic to make it look sun-kissed. It takes half a day but it's worth it. I came home and got straight into some make ahead cooking just in case we had power issues with this second storm. The forecasters were calling for actual snow, and  didn't seem too terribly worried about power outages, but still it's best to be prepared. 

I made a pot of beef stew and a pot of chicken noodle soup and even though we never lost power we enjoyed these dishes all weekend long. I loved having food prepared and not having to cook over the weekend. I should do more of that in all types of weather. 

Friday night hubs and I went to a nearby venue to see the band Lonestar. Raise your hand if you listened to country music in the 90's and 00's and you remember Lonestar. Their biggest hit was a song called Amazed and I think it became a wedding song for a lot of couples who married back in those decades. 

Anyway, this venue is so nice. It's smallish and we were just four rows from the band. The seats are comfortable and parking for a show here is not a problem. I realize all of that makes me sound old, but whatever. 

We enjoyed the performance so much. They're really talented musicians, the guitar player especially. They sang all my old favorites, which took me right back to living beside the Bay, little girls in the house, weekends spent boating with friends,  and country music on the radio. Sigh. 

There are still three original members of Lonestar  with the group, and then two members who joined later but have been with them a while. The keyboardist was the 'boss' and he was funny and had a great rapport with the audience. 

Did I sing along? How could I not? Hubs used to travel a lot with work (always, but particularly often in the 90's), and Lonestar's song,  'I'm Already There' especially makes me think of that season of life. 

Where was I? 

Oh yeah, the weather. We woke up to light snow falling Saturday morning, and it grew heavier as the day went on. We ended up with somewhere between two and three inches I think and that's a lot for our area. 

Somebody loved it. 

Hubs took the little brown dog out to play and he ends up with all these little ice balls stuck to his fur which means he has to be dried and cleaned off afterwards, but he LOVES it. 

Hubs used the leaf blower to get some of the snow off the driveway. It was light and we no longer own a snow shovel so there's that. We watched Clemson basketball and read books and chatted, then had stew for dinner. After dinner it was Tennessee basketball and early to bed. 

Just like the Pioneers. 

Sort of like the Pioneers. 

Not really like the Pioneers except we are going to bed early. 

We knew church was cancelled for Sunday, as were I think all or almost all of the churches in our county, and schools are closed again today. I spent time Sunday morning digging in to the Wayne Grudem book I'm working through this year (Sytematic Theology). It's excellent, but it's not light and requires every ounce of concentration I can muster. A quiet Sunday morning was perfect for this. 

I cleaned out my dresser drawers and the drawers in my bathroom vanity this weekend, did some laundry, and hubs ran the vacuum so a few things did get done that needed doing. 

Mostly though it's quiet, beautiful, slick, and only 47 days until Spring. 

If you're talking about your weekend hop over to the host blogs and add your link to the party. 


Sunday, February 1, 2026

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 639

Here are the questions to this week's Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here on Wednesday (February 4th) to share answers with all your friends and neighbors. See you there!

From this Side of the Pond

1. The Winter Olympics kick off on Friday, February 6th...on a scale of 1-10 how excited are you? (1= eh and 10=watching every event all day every day). What's your favorite Winter Olympic sporting event? 

2. In other sporting news, the Superbowl (American football's championship game) will be played on Sunday, February 8th. So tell us...what's your superpower?

3. Are you a romantic? 

4. Blue cheese-yay or nay? How about feta? If you said yes to one or both, what's a dish you like that calls for one of these? 

5. What's more important-doing what you love or loving what you do? 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Wednesday, January 28, 2026

An Icy Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. 

A quick word about comments-

I leave the link up for the week and if you have a chance, it's nice to visit some of the bloggers who come late to the party. Comments keep the hop hopping : ) 

From this Side of the Pond
1. I live in the south so we're pretty much only talking about the weather right now. Give us a weather report from where you live. Does the kind of weather you're having today affect your mood in some way?

We woke up to ice ice baby on Sunday morning. A mess, but perhaps not quite as big a mess as predicted because we also woke up to power-yay! The ice continued the whole ding dong day, yet our power held on until sometime around 1 AM when out she went. No power all day Monday, but thankfully all was restored around dinnertime.  


Does this sort of weather affect my mood? Eh, not so long as it doesn't last until May (north Jersey I'm looking at you). A fluffy snowfall actually puts me in a good mood. A driveway that looks like a skating rink not so much. We had nowhere to be this weekend or Monday for that matter, and hubs and I agreed it was kind of nice to have a quiet cozy day at home. I read two books, we kept the fireplace running off and on, I'd cooked ahead so we reheated food, plus I had a really nice nap on Monday afternoon. 

Sometimes I think the weather is God's way of saying slow down lady. 

2.  Avocados, kale, cauliflower and cottage cheese have all had their time to shine. 2026 brings us the year of the cabbage. Is this a vegetable you like? If so, what are some of your favorite dishes that call for cabbage?  

I do like cabbage, but it's one of those vegetables I don't always think about buying. I love cole slaw, roasted cabbage, and cabbage as an ingredient in soup.  I like slaw of some sort on a fish taco and I like to make cabbage with smoked sausage.  I'm sure I'd like a cabbage roll too, but haven't had one in a long time. 

3. Was a Cabbage Patch Doll a part of your childhood? Or maybe your children's childhood? What's a toy trend from your childhood you remember wanting for your own? 

Cabbage Patch Dolls were big in my girl's growing up years and they each had a doll. Eldora Charmaine and Judith Eloise. They came with names and birth certificates. I still have them and will give them to my granddaughters maybe even this year. 

One of our favorite old home movies to watch is from the birthday where daughter2 was given her Cabbage Patch doll named Judith. This gift sent daughter1 into a complete tailspin and she attempted to negotiate with her little sister like a boss because she wanted to get her hands on that doll so so badly. Daughter2 basically carried the doll around in a football hold and this made her older sister panicky.  It's so precious to remember. I'm sure they are smiling as they read this. 

I don't remember people going crazy when I was a kid, as in lining up at midnight to get the latest thing. That was my generation of parents, although it was never me. I suppose online shopping has mostly put a stop to that insanity. 

I do remember when I was six years old wanting a budding beauty vanity and getting that very thing one Christmas. Made me so happy, but I don't think it was a trend. Just something I saw, probably in a catalog.  It had a little stool and a mirror and I think it might have come with some play makeup.  

4. Something you've spent a lot of time doing lately? 

Playing Mah Jong. I'm the contact person for our neighborhood group and we wanted to recruit some new players to grow our pool so to speak. I put an announcement on our neighborhood facebook page, and turns out everyone in the neighborhood wants to learn to play lol. 


Myself, plus a couple of other women, have been teaching a few times a week, and it's been a lot of fun. It will be really fun when everyone gets up to speed and can play without help.

5. Somehow it's the last week of January...sum up your month in just three sentences. 

Bye January.

I feel like you just got here. 

You provided a gentle start to the new year which is how I like it. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

A neighbor gifted me an Amaryllis in December and she's a beauty...

Have a nice week everyone~

Monday, January 26, 2026

An Icy Hello Monday

Good morning from the deep freeze. I'm writing this weekend catch up on Sunday morning because it feels like a certainty we'll lose power sometime today. It rained ice overnight and has continued into this morning, while temps remain below freezing for a while. Those power lines can only take so much. 

On the bright side we woke up to power, coffee, and a hot shower so counting our Sunday blessings. We were prepared to be greeted by none of the above. 

When you live in the south and winter weather is predicted the forecast essentially takes over your life. I'd much rather have snow than ice, but snow is pretty rare here and ice is so much harder to deal with. 

Let it melt. That's how you deal. 

Let's back up to Friday for our weekend recap, which I'm linking with Holly (Pink Lady) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books), our hosts for the Hello Monday hop.

Hubs was away all last week on his annual duck hunting excursion with friends.

 FYI they don't call it an excursion. 

They didn't get as many ducks as they normally do, but still brought home plenty and had a great time. He says spending four days in a duck blind in rainy 20 degree temps was his way of training for the icepocalypse. 

He got home about lunchtime Friday and I left soon after to help out with a Mah Jong class in my neighborhood. I stopped for gas on my way home from playing because filling up the car is #7 on a list of ten things to do when weather is headed your way. 

I'd made dinner in the crockpot so once I was home hubs and I relaxed with a glass of wine and a catch up on all the happenings of the week that was. We watched a movie that night-Nuremburg, which we thought was just okay. I wasn't familiar with this aspect of the trial (the psychiatrist's relationship with Goering) and the acting was good.

Saturday morning we went into prep mode. We have a portable generator which hubs made sure was working, and this allows us to at least keep a frig and freezer operating and devices charged. We have two refrigerators and the generator is closer to the lower level frig so I started moving a few items from upstairs to down. All the laundry was done, the dishwasher run, and we pulled out sleeping bags, all the blankets, charged portable lights and all our devices, and inflated an air mattress in case we decide to sleep in front of the fireplace. 

I did some cooking too. On Friday I made vegetable beef soup and then Saturday I made spaghetti sauce and went ahead and made the pasta too. I added a little pasta water to the noodles before refrigerating to keep them from drying out, and I have duck meatballs in the freezer we can add to this. They're made with duck, beef, and Italian sausage so will be good with the pasta.  Easy meals we can reheat on the stove top. I have an electric oven but a gas cooktop so we can use the stove even without electricity. 

I also made brownies because every ice storm needs some. This batch was particularly good, just the right ratio of crispy edge to gooey center. 

Friday night my daughter1 and son-in-law invited us to their house for a Burns night dinner. You may not know what that is unless you're familiar with the Scottish poet and lyricist Robert Burns (Robbie to those who know him well). He's regarded as the National Poet of Scotland and is world famous.  Even if you don't know his poetry I'm pretty sure Auld Lang Syne rings a bell, along with the expression, 'the best laid plans of mice and men.' 

Burns was born on January 25, 1759 and every year on his birthday Burns night dinners are held in his honor. A traditional Burns night meal consists of haggis, neeps (similar to a rutabaga) and tatties (potatoes) and a dram of Scotch whiskey to wash it all down. His poetry is recited or read aloud alongside the meal. 

Haggis has a reputation, but when in Scotland (or a Burns night dinner in South Carolina) ...

Vegetarians look away. Haggis is traditionally made with sheep's offal (internal organs), mixed with oats, suet, onion, and spices all cooked inside a sheep's stomach. Sounds like something, doesn't it? We had ours as an appetizer, crumbled with crackers, and if you didn't know what you were eating you might think it was a spicy breakfast sausage. It was quite good. 

Our meal was a close version of the traditional with a haggis starter, steak and ale pie, tatties, and cabbage. The men sipped some Talisker's to make it truly official, and everyone read a Burns poem. Hearing your 8-year old grandson read a Burns poem with all it's Scottish wording is a 10/10 experience. I recommend. 

We had an early dinner so hubs and I could get home before the ice rolled in. We watched Tennessee beat Alabama in basketball and slept in our own warm bed. 

We woke up Sunday morning to an icy coating on pretty much everything. More sleet and freezing rain are in the forecast but we have nowhere to go so we'll stay snug and cozy here at home. Church services are all cancelled in our area and schools have already cancelled for tomorrow. I have a pile of books to read and as I type this we still have power which definitely makes an ice storm less miserable. 

This morning I'm grateful for heat, hot water, light, and all the many people out working on roads and power lines and in emergency services to keep us safe and comfortable. Have a nice wintry week everyone! 

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 638

Here are the questions to this week's Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then skate back here on Wednesday (January 28th) to add your link to the party. See you there! 

1. I live in the south so we're pretty much only talking about the weather right now. Give us a weather report from where you live. Does the kind of weather you're having today affect your mood in some way? 

2.  Avocados, kale, cauliflower and cottage cheese have all had their time to shine. 2026 brings us the year of the cabbage. Is this a vegetable you like? If so, what are some of your favorite dishes that call for cabbage?  

3. Was a Cabbage Patch Doll a part of your childhood? Or maybe your children's childhood? What's a toy trend from your childhood you remember wanting for your own? 

4. Something you've spent a lot of time doing lately? 

5. Somehow it's the last week of January...sum up your month in just three sentences. 

6. Insert your own random thought here.