An Independent Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger there before you.  Here we go-

1. Do you think you're driven more by curiosity or comfort? Explain. 

I think curiosity is what makes us grow, and I want to always be curious. That being said, we need rest and stability in our lives (comfort) as a base for dealing with the changes growth brings, so I guess my answer is a combination of both. 

2. What non-food item is in your refrigerator or freezer? 

I keep my 'face roller' in there. I'm sure there's another name for it, but that's what I call it. 

And eye masks. I love them cold. 

3. Are you comfortable with silence? If you're home alone, do you like silence or do you need regular background noise? Do you seek out times and places to be silent? What's your favorite place to find silence/be silent? 

I am very comfortable with silence. Unless it's an uncomfortable silence and then I'm uncomfortable too lol. I often feel the need to fill an uncomfortable silence with a lot of chatter. 

I keep my house mostly quiet during the day. Sometimes if I'm baking or doing household tasks I'll have my book or a podcast playing, but mostly I like a quiet house. I need quiet, especially after a busy weekend, emotional experiences, a party, or lots of people kinds of events. My favorite place to find silence? Right here-

4. Carpentry, electrical, plumbing, landscaping...which skill would you most like to possess and how would you put that skill to use today?

Well I think my hubs was just on the phone with an electrician so for today I'll go with that one. We're trying to switch our internet provider and there's some sort of blah blah blah with a wire and honestly I am depositing this whole transition in hubs basket. Just tell me when it's over and make sure I have internet please. 

In general I think a plumber would be the most useful skill to have. 

5. Do you lean more towards being too needy or too independent? Which do you find harder to deal with in others? 

I suppose I lean more towards being too independent. Hubs might say stubborn, but I'm going with independent. I think it comes from years of being married to someone who traveled all the time for work and me having to manage all the things. So many things. 

In others I guess neediness is a little harder for me to deal with, but that really depends on what sort of need we're talking about. There are people who are sincerely in need and I have all the patience and compassion in the world for them. 

Then there are people who just can't be bothered to figure things out for themselves and ask someone else to do the figuring for them. Those situations are a little harder to take, but I try to always be kind which means sometimes dealing with another person's neediness. 

6.  Insert your own random thought here. 

My book club met yesterday and discussed The Calamity Club by Kathryn Stockett. Have you read it? What did you think? Did you read The Help? If so which did you like best?

October's Everyday Images

I'm sharing Everyday Images of late using the prompts provided by Kym at A Fresh Cup Of Coffee. She posts new prompts every other Thursday and the most recent are-

Friday focus~rocky~two~at my feet~orange~new and/or used~books

Let's see what we saw...

Friday focus~

Beauty in the neighborhood...

rocky~

Not a super interesting photo, but four buckets of rocks are sitting beside the lower level garage waiting on a small waterfall repair. 

The repair was supposed to happen last week so hubs turned it off so it could dry out and then it rained. It's funny how much I miss the sound of the waterfall. You get used to that and it's the perfect soundtrack for relaxation. The repair (as I understand it, which I'll admit is not very well) requires a little bit of concrete so it needs to be somewhat dry. This is the waterfall sans water-

Lots of rocks though! Once the repair happens (fingers crossed for tomorrow) we'll add a few more rocks where needed. 

And it goes without saying that by 'we' I mean the hubs. 

two~

The weather was gorgeous here yesterday so after lunch we decided to take the boat for a spin and fill the gas tank. We let the little brown dog come along for the ride and let's just say he can kind of wreck the tranquil feel you're aiming for. 

He's cute though. 

Pulling up to the gas dock means the dock boy must get the bumpers out and attached before we 'park'.

Hey, guess what? I'm the dock boy. 

I know. It surprises me pretty regularly too. 

We have four bumpers on the boat, but conveniently only needed two today. Nobody was on the lake so the marina wasn't rockin' and rollin'. The sweet dock girl (actually employed by the marina) who filled our tank and handled the lines like it was no big deal, also happened to be the owner of not one but two Boykins.  

We had a nice time chatting about all the naughty things they get into and how many belly surgeries they've had (hers is recovering from one currently), and how they can swallow a sock in the blink of an eye but we love them anyway. 

at my feet~

Water. 

orange~

Hubs and I went out to breakfast Saturday and the restaurant has a coffee station where you can help yourself. Part of helping yourself means choosing a mug and I picked this one for hubs. Go Big Orange! 

A picture I snapped on a walk in my neighborhood last week. Gotta give the hometown team some love too, right? They definitely need it this season. 

Porch pumpkin close up...

Coming under the bridge today. That circle may originally have been red, but when you mix red and yellow (the sun) you get orange...

True story...when we were in uni we used to go to a friend's lake house and hubs was a maniac on water skis. The guys would ski under the bridge and get as close as they could to the bridge sides to see whose spray went the highest.  

Probably why most lakes now have no wake rules under bridges. 

new and/or used~

Are you watching the newest season of The British Baking Show? My daughter2 and I watch it together apart. What that means is she watches on her television in Tennessee and I watch on my television in South Carolina and we text the entire time. We watched the newest episode Monday night. 

We love Nigella and are going to work the word unctuous into our vocabulary this fall. 

books~

This stack is on my nightstand as I type. Not a single library book because I'm determined to read through some of the books friends have given me recently before I check out anything else from the library. 

Also this stack is on the bookshelf in my office. My parents had a pretty amazing reference library, their own church library if you will, and when my mama passed away my sister still had some of her books from when my mom lived with her. She sent me some pictures asking if I wanted any and I said send me all the C.S. Lewis. 

So she did. There's more but these are in a section all together so it was. easy to snap a photo. 

These photo prompts are fun and stretch your brain a little too. Why not give it a try? 

Linking today with Kym at Everyday Images and Joanne for Talking About it Tuesdays

The Weekend

In a word drenched. 

But Friday was beautiful. Sometimes the day before a storm has some of the best weather. Actually let's back up to Thursday since that's the weekend on my blog. 

The whole week was busy but it's a month for ticking things off the to-do list I suppose. On Monday (because I guess I'm backing all the way up to Monday now) I had labs done in preparation for my yearly physical. Since I was in the city I made a stop at Costco and picked up a few essentials. It was crowded and I made a mental note to avoid shopping there whenever possible until after the holidays. 

Hubs sent me this picture he snapped on the way to a friend's house Monday evening. October has the best skies. 

Tuesday I did the regular grocery shopping and played mah jong that evening. Then on Wednesday hubs and I both had appointments with the eye doctor. I'd like to go somewhere else, but options are limited. I don't mind the care, but they book far too many appointments at the same time and I spent more time there than I should have.  

Thursday I spent a fair chunk of the day taking care of some paperwork and then booking lodging for the third leg of our trip west next year. It's not happening until later in 2027, but we have all our accommodations booked and getting that done has me feeling a little bit excited for the trip. Hubs and I are doing a week on our own, then meeting up with two more couples for the second half of the holiday. 

Thursday night I went with a few women from my bookclub to hear an author talk about her new book. The author's name is Katherine Reay and she's written quite a few books, half on the lighter side, and then several more recent books that would fall under the genre of historical fiction/spy novels. 

Her debut novel was called  Dear Mr. Knightley, and came out about ten years ago or so, but I haven't read anything else by her since. Her newest book is The Undercover Bookshop and is set in a Cotswold village in 1950. 

She had me at Cotswold Village. 

I enjoy hearing an author discuss their writing and she was a wonderful speaker. We all felt like we'd had a little history lesson as she talked about what was going on in the world and particularly the UK at the end of the war.  I'm looking forward to reading this one soon. 

Another pretty sky on the ride home-

There might not be many faces on my blog these days, but there are still plenty of sky shots. 

Friday was a nice day. My next door neighbor has a granddaughter the same age as our Little Miss, although Little Miss lives here and my neighbor's grand lives about two hours away. She was in town visiting this week so my daughter1 invited everyone to lunch and a playdate. 

They were positively adorable playing together and the moms and grandmoms all had a nice time chatting. 

I'd made a meatloaf that morning so we had that for dinner. Hubs and I pulled all the porch cushions inside since nasty rain and windy weather were predicted, and we watched a movie before calling it a night. 

Saturday we woke up to gray skies and all day rain. We had plans to go into the city to a Fall Festival, where they close off the streets and there are lots of bands and food trucks, and it's just a fun day out. The event ended up getting cancelled due to weather so we had a Saturday to fill. 

We decided to go to breakfast somewhere because we wanted to get out of the house for a bit. Afterwards we stopped in a newish little market near the house and they have so many yummy things to buy. Snacks, sandwiches, coffee, ice cream, meat from a local farm, homemade bread and more. And it's close! When you live out of town having something like this nearby is such a treat. 

Once home hubs spent the rest of the morning on a project he has going on in the lower level and I worked out then washed my hair which takes a couple of hours,  so it was a good day for it. Our treadmill is in the lower level garage and even though it was pouring down rain I opened up the door and enjoyed the breeze and the view, even on this dismal day. 

I did some prep for my book club meeting happening this week (we read The Calamity Club) and then made a big pot of Ina Garten's Minestrone to have for dinner and leftovers this week. Her recipe is excellent. 

Even though I declared it a no laundry day hubs had a pile of towels from his project so I ended up doing a load of wash. It's just the two of us here but I feel like I am always doing laundry. 

After that it was football time in Tennessee so we watched the game. A win~yay! 

Sunday morning we had coffee on the screened porch and watched the sunrise for a quick spectacular minute. 

We went to church then pretty much lounged the rest of the afternoon. We have a lot going on in this second half of October and a day of r and r is probably necessary. 

So how was your weekend? If you blogged about it hop over to our host blogs - Holly (Pink Lady) and Sarah (Sunshine and Books)-and add your link to their Hello Monday hop. 

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 675

Yay! I remembered. Here are this week's questions for the Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog then hop back here on Wednesday (October 14) to share answers with all your friends and a few strangers too. See you there!

1. Do you think you're driven more by curiosity or comfort? Explain. 

2. What non-food item is in your refrigerator or freezer? 

3. Are you comfortable with silence? If you're home alone, do you like silence or do you need regular background noise? Do you seek out times and places to be silent? What's your favorite place to find silence/be silent? 

4. Carpentry, electrical, plumbing, landscaping...which skill would you most like to possess and how would you put that skill to use today?

5. Do you lean more towards being too needy or too independent? Which do you find harder to deal with in others? 

6.  Insert your own random thought here. 

Fall Things On A Friday

Sharing a few favorites and some miscellaneous bits and bobs on this second Friday in October. 77 days til Christmas for anyone who might be counting. 

For the record I'm not counting. I feel like we're just now finally getting in to fall and fall is my favorite. 

Linking with Erika and Andrea today for their Friday Favorites link party. Here we go-

The air this time of year is so nice. We have so much heavy humidity all summer long, but late afternoons in autumn are cool and clear and perfect. Hubs and I like to sit on the lower patio with a glass of wine and music playing and this bottle in particular is so pretty. It's Spanish and the bottle itself is a soft shade of blue.

Matches the lake and sky both.

I don't do a lot of seasonal decorating other than Christmas, but I love the colors of fall and they fit with the style of my home and my personal taste really well so I do add a few things come Autumn.  

Outdoor cushions for the upper deck furniture-

A basket of assorted acorns, pumpkins, and pinecones made with different fabrics and lots of texture sits on the kitchen island-

Fall chargers and napkin rings in the dining room-

I like my velvet pumpkin sitting on a velvet runner  in the middle of the table. My dining room window treatments are still my favorite and have a fall feel to them. I normally have them open but the sun was too bright for a picture so I pulled them closed. 

On the keeping room side of the fireplace I set my glass pumpkins and then I prop the spidey hands my oldest grandsons made when they were very small.  

Too sweet to part with so I don't. 

I put a glass pumpkin on the bar downstairs filled with hubs favorites in the mini size-Reeses and Kit Kats. I had it upstairs but decided it was healthier for me to have it downstairs. 

I also bought some new pillows for my family room couch and love the muted colors. I especially love the green plaid and will change out the pumpkin pillows for something more Christmasy when December rolls around.

In 54 days, except remember we're not counting. 

I bought a new candle for my coffee table. It's so pretty and the scent is similar to the Volcano candles most people are familiar with-

My front porch...

I resisted buying mums for as long as I could, because our front porch gets so much sun and mums don't seem to last, but I love them. They're the epitome of fall to me and I had to have some. I added a few pumpkins too and have the big bow my daughter made me last year on my front door wreath. 

The autumn moon is something pretty spectacular...

As is an October sunrise outside my bedroom window...

Happy fall y'all...have a nice weekend! 

Let's Not Forget The Hodgepodge

Welcome to this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. Better late than never, right? Thanks for your patience and for playing along today. If you've answered this week's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger there before you. Here we go-

1. Let's embrace it shall we? What's something you recently forgot to do? Is your memory these days more like a sieve or an elephant? 

The obvious answer is this week's Hodgepodge questions. And when I say I forgot I mean I totally completely 100% forgot. I didn't think about it for one single second until Myra sent the first message sometime Monday morning asking if she'd missed me cancelling this week.

I wouldn't say my memory is a sieve, but it's no longer an elephant either. 

2. Share a trick/strategy you have to help you remember things you need to remember. 

I play a lot of word games, work crossword puzzles, play mah jong, and read hard books, all of which are supposed to be good for keeping your brain active, engaged, and working. 

I also write everything down. If it's not written down it might. not happen. I use Notes on my phone and sometimes send myself a message or screenshot. 

A long time ago I read a book about memory and the author shared one trick I still use.  If you're a person who leaves the house and can't remember if you unplugged the iron/curling iron/coffeepot, etc here's what you do-as you unplug the item you picture your face in the outlet. Then when you later find yourself trying to remember whether or not you unplugged said appliance the picture of your face in the outlet comes to mind. It sounds a little crazy but I've found it to be effective. 

3. What's your favorite fall vegetable to cook with? Do you prefer your fall veggies roasted, blended into a warm soup, or fresh in a crisp autumn salad? 

I love all fall vegetables so it would be hard to choose a favorite. If pressed I'll say sweet potatoes. I like my fall vegetables in all the forms listed. I most often have them roasted.  

4. October 5th is/was National Do Something Nice Day. Did you? If so tell us about it. Or maybe someone did something nice for you, and if that's the case please share. 

I was at Costco on Monday trying to free a cart from a mess of carts and a man walked over and managed to separate them for me. I was grateful.  It was a small act of kindness but little things mean a lot. 

5.  Nathaniel Hawthorne is credited with the quote "I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house."  

Do you tend to spend more time outside this time of year? 

We pretty much live on our porches year round, but autumn is my absolute favorite time to be outdoors. 

Do you actively pause to soak in fleeting moments of beauty in your daily routine? Elaborate. 

Do I actively pause. Yes I think so, and I think blogging helps with this. You begin to notice ordinary moments, conversations, and what's happening around you, and consider how you would frame those things if you were writing abut them. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Here's something new and kind of fun for me. I participate almost every April in the A-Z Blog Challenge.  This year I was notified I'd been awarded a guest spot on their blog. Have you ever done a guest post? I think there were five participants given a slot and my post published on their site yesterday (Tuesday). 

You'll find my entry here-The ABCs of Why I Still Blog. I'd love for you to hop over and read, then comment there with an answer to the question I asked at the end of my post. 

Happy Wednesday everyone! 

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 674

Oops! I forgot to post this week's Hodgepodge questions like I normally do on Sunday. Actually I forgot to write them so winging it a bit here today. Winging it and hodgepodging go together so it's fine. Hop back here on Wednesday (October 7) to add your link to the party. I'll be there! Promise! 

1. Let's embrace it shall we? What's something you recently forgot to do? Is your memory these days more like a sieve or an elephant? 

2. Share a trick/strategy you have to help you remember things you need to remember. 

3. What's your favorite fall vegetable to cook with? Do you prefer your fall veggies roasted, blended into a warm soup, or fresh in a crisp autumn salad? 

4. October 5th is/was National Do Something Nice Day. Did you? If so tell us about it. Or maybe someone did something nice for you, and if that's the case please share. 

5.  Nathaniel Hawthorne is credited with the quote "I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house."  

Do you tend to spend more time outside this time of year? 

Do you actively pause to soak in fleeting moments of beauty in your daily routine? Elaborate. 

6. Insert your own random thought here.