Sunday, February 16, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 590

Here are the questions to this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here on Wednesday (Feb. 19th) to add your link to the party. See you there! 

1. Many of our earliest presidents created words or expressions widely used today. Teddy Roosevelt is credited with mollycoddle, pack rat, frazzle, and loose cannon...which of those words/phrases currently relates to your life in some way? 

2. Have you visited many (or any) of the US Presidents homes, monuments, libraries or related sites? If so what's been your favorite? Are there any you particularly want to see? Here's a link to presidential sites listed by state which is kind of fun to read-Presidential Places by State. And since several bloggers who participate in the HP each week live outside the US, here's a link to Presidential Places Outside the US. Have you seen any of those? 

3. February 20th is National Cherry Pie Day...will you celebrate? Given your choice of cherry pie, cherry cobbler, cheesecake with a cherry topping, or black forest cake which would you choose? 

4. Last time you worked a puzzle of some kind? Something that had you puzzled recently? 

5. Of the early blooming flowers (January-early March depending on your zone) which one's your favorite? 

snowdrops, lenten roses, pansies, violets, snapdragons, reticulated iris, crocus, winter jasmine

Do you have any of these in your own yard/garden? 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Wednesday, February 12, 2025

A Love-ly Hodgepodge

Love is in the air in this week's edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions, add your link at the end of my post, then leave a love-ly comment for the blogger before you. Here we go- 

From this Side of the Pond
1. Did you watch the Super Bowl? Did your team win? What's your favorite game day snack for  whatever sport is happening? 

I did watch the Super Bowl. Truthfully I slept through a fair chunk of the third quarter, but was really happy with the win. I grew up just across the bridge from Philly and the Eagles are my team. Hubs grilled wings and brats for dinner before the game and they were so good. My favorite game day snack would probably be nachos, which were not on the menu but are still my fave. 

2. What's your 'superpower'? 

Napping? Loading the dishwasher? 

3. Will you do anything special on Valentine's Day? If so do share. Any thoughts on/about this particular holiday? Share a favorite verse or quote relating to love. 

Daughter1 is in a wedding Valentine's Day weekend, one that requires travel, so we'll be home manning the fort. And by fort I mean the grands. We were invited to the wedding as the bride is a college friend of my daughter's, a sorority sister, and she was also her roommate in DC after college so we know and love her.

We decided to let the 'kids' have a weekend away and just enjoy their time together without us tagging along too. Also, we're tired and not up for another road trip at the moment. I'm sure staying home with the grands won't be tiring at all.  

A favorite verse-'For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.' Romans 8:38-39

4. Are you a fan of the rom-com genre? If so what's one of your favorites? If you're not a movie go-er then what about a book you love that features a great love story? How about a favorite love song? 

I like a rom-com now and then, but prefer legal thrillers, mysteries, or drama more. My favorite rom-coms are Sweet Home Alabama and When Harry Met Sally. There are probably others, but those two popped in to my head first. 

Books-The Thorn Birds would be one of my favorite love stories. 

Love Song-well there's no way I could pick just one. A few favorites are-More Today Than Yesterday by Spiral Staircase, Love Will Keep Us Alive by The Eagles, Everything by Michael Buble, How Deep Is Your Love by The Bee Gees, and for me and the hubs especially I Love You by Climax Blues Band. 

5. Let's get creative...write an acrostic using the word L-O-V-E. 

L-love is lots of things, including patient and kind

O-it offends not

V-values the other more than oneself

E-and endures all things

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

We had our wine club dinner Tuesday evening and it was as usual delish. One of the courses was filet tartare with tomato short rib stock, soy cured egg yolk and pickled vegetables. Have you ever tried tartare, and if so what did you think? 

When we lived in North Jersey hubs and I used to go in to the city and we would sometimes go to Sardis and order their tartar. It was served on a fancy platter with all kinds of garnishes and was so good. 

While I neglected to snap a photo of the tartare I did manage a picture of dessert. Priorities, right? Dessert was a hazelnut crunch bar with nutella drizzle and whipped cream. Yum! 

Thanks for joining in today...happy Wednesday and happy heart day! 


Tuesday, February 11, 2025

My Tuesday version of Hello Monday

I wanted to recap the weekend, but the weekend kind of wore me out. I posted my 10 on the 10th yesterday because I had written my answers to that prior to the weekend.  

Today it's Hello Monday on a Tuesday. It's fine. 

Also Monday was a blur too, so no rest for the weary I guess. 

Back to the weekend...hubs and I road tripped to daughter2's house on Friday because our littlest grand was celebrating her birthday. We ended up not getting on the road until almost noon because hubs needed to run an errand with my son-in-law and my daughter1 was out getting her haircut, which meant I was in charge of the grands for a couple of hours. 

We had an uneventful drive to Tennessee and listened to a book most of the way, the third in a series of legal thrillers we enjoy. (Book 3 is The Southern Killer by Peter O'Mahoney).  

The other set of grandparents beat us there and neither of us brought our dogs which was kind of nice. Having daughter1 in my house means we can leave the little brown dog with his 'birth mother' ha! She texted us a picture of my son-in-law taking him for a walk and hubs said he shouldn't get any big ideas. She texted back he will honor the adoption agreement. 

Friday night daughter2 made a really delicious baked spaghetti for dinner and we chatted and did a little bit of party prep before calling it a night. 

Saturday morning was the big day. Happy 1st birthday to this little sweetheart who is positively precious. 

The party had a heart theme because when your birthday is less than a week before Valentine's Day you might as well embrace all the hearts and shades of pink and red.


A year goes by in the blink of an eye. 

My son-in-law put a brisket on the smoker before we went to bed Friday night so we woke up to the aroma of that. The men spend a lot of time discussing time tables, temperatures, and taste whenever grilling is happening, but they love it and it's kind of cute to listen to them. Grilling is an art. 

Also, the brisket was sooo delicious. I think the best one yet, perfectly seasoned and perfectly cooked, and the texture was like butter. 

My daughter's mother-in-law and I got to work creating the balloon arch which would be attached to the bounce house. Go big or go home on a first birthday, right? These arches are far more time consuming than one would think, but I knew this from past experience. 

I loved the happy colors and the confetti balloons are so much fun. 

Sweet baby J would be happy with a balloon and nothing else. This whole pile was hard to resist. 

He did have himself a big time in that bounce house too though, which was a hit with all the littles. Friends started arriving around 3:30 and it was a party! My daughter and son-in-law have the nicest friends and we enjoy them a lot. 

Sugar was her usual sweet self and the star of the show even though she didn't know it. I always say first birthdays are for the parents...you have navigated a tiny human's first year of life and that should absolutely be celebrated.  


Daughter2 made a sheet cake from scratch with homemade strawberry icing and the prettiest sprinkles, then made a smaller heart shaped smash cake too.

It took baby girl a minute to figure out what to do with the smash cake, but big brother walked over and took a big bite out of one side and that was all it took. 

Sugar liked playing with the icing but wasn't interested in eating the cake. She's dainty like that. 

Also, it's hard to be the first born on the second born's birthday lol. At one point the other grandmother said to sweet baby J that he should let sissy have a turn at something because she's the birthday girl, to which he replied, 'Well I'm the birthday brother.' True little man. 

He's sweet with his sister and the first two gifts she opened (well, her momma opened) were darling little outfits so he wasn't too overwhelmed by that. 

We bought Sugar a baby doll stroller and then I got her momma's Bitty Baby out of the attic and put her in it. I wasn't sure I'd give her the doll this time or not, but when I pulled Bitty Baby (Julia as she's known here) out of the box she was stored in she was wearing her Valentine's Day dress, so how could I not? 

When everyone left we all crashed. We got up Sunday morning and got ready to hit the road. My son-in-law picked up donuts and hubs asked J to pick the Superbowl winner-

And he did! We got home about one and hubs got to work setting up the grill for his famous wings and brats. I slept through most of the third quarter, but was so happy with the win. The Eagles are my hometown team and they showed up for this one. 

And now somehow it's Tuesday and I have book club, and a tax organizer to finish, then a dinner to attend this evening. I thought February was quiet and dull?

Linking today with Hello Monday hosted by Holly and Sarah and Talking About It Tuesday hosted by Joanne



Monday, February 10, 2025

10 on the 10th ala Valentine's Day

We've had a busy busy weekend which included a road trip, so I think I'll save my recap for tomorrow (Tuesday) and join Marsha In The Middle for her monthly 10 on the 10th today. 

Feel free to play along and add your link on her blog. Every month is different and this month we have ten 'would you rather' style questions related to Valentine's Day. Here we go-
 

1. A cozy restaurant or cozied up at home in your jammies?

We typically try to cook something special or a little bit fancy together at home on Valentine's Day because restaurants are busy and often have set menus for the holiday. That being said, I feel like we've spent a lot of time cooking at home lately so a nice dinner out is really appealing. 

This year we'll be in charge of the grands over the Valentine's Day weekend while my daughter1 and her husband travel to a wedding. It's possible we'll be dining on pizza and that's okay too. 

2. Eat red velvet cake or wear red velvet? 

I'll have the slice of cake please. I love velvet fabric especially around the Christmas holidays, but I prefer the darker tones-black, emerald, navy. 


When my girls were little I did 
dress them in red velvet on occasion, but it's not a color/fabric combo I'd wear myself. 

3.  A heart shaped box of candy or a heart shaped piece of jewelry? 

It would depend on the jewelry. Some delicate heart shaped earrings? Yes please. I love these from Kendra Scott-

The little Kate Spade hearts are also really cute-



4. Reese's Pieces or a Reese's Heart?  

I'd be happy with either, but would probably opt for the Reese's Pieces. 

5. Watch a Valentine themed movie or an action movie? 

Is the Valentine movie any good or is it super cheesy? If it's the latter, then I'd rather watch an action movie. 

6. A box of chocolates or a less than perfect homemade card for my person? 

Can I just share the above mentioned Reese's Pieces with my person? They're one of his favorites. 

7. Iceland or Tahiti? 

Definitely Tahiti. I'd like a trip to Tahiti more than a cozy dinner in a restaurant or a cozy dinner at home in my jammies or a bag of Reese's Pieces or some heart shaped jewelry. 

8. Would my Valentine want me to sing At Last or I Don't Want To Miss A Thing? 

My Valentine wouldn't want me to sing lol. Are these my only choices because neither would be songs I'd sing? 

If I could sing I mean. 

Which I can't so there won't be singing. 

9. Celebrate for a week or not at all? 

I like the holiday, but a week might be a lot. Not at all sounds like the February equivalent of Scrooge. A single day feels just right. 

10. A really sour piece of candy or a Brussel sprout dipped in chocolate? 

Finally an easy one...sour candies are my favorite so will happily opt for that one. 

Hope your week is filled with the things and people you love. 

Sunday, February 9, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 589

Here are the questions to this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here on Wednesday (Feb 12th) to add your link and share the love. See you there!  

1. Did you watch the Super Bowl? Did your team win? What's your favorite game day snack for  whatever sport is happening? 

2. What's your 'superpower'? 

3. Will you do anything special on Valentine's Day? If so do share. Any thoughts on/about this particular holiday? Share a favorite verse or quote relating to love. 

4. Are you a fan of the rom-com genre? If so what's one of your favorites? If you're not a movie go-er then what about a book you love that features a great love story? How about a favorite love song? 

5. Let's get creative...write an acrostic using the word L-O-V-E. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Saturday, February 8, 2025

Sugar Sugar...

Someone especially sweet is celebrating a birthday today...

Dear Sugar, 

Today you are ONE. Time seems to move faster with every passing year and while I know that's something 'old' people say, it feels so true. 

Also, Pawpaw and I are not really old, it's just that sometimes five grandchildren can fool us into thinking we are. 

You, my precious girl, have been pure sweetness from day one. You have what I call a whole body smile. When you smile, which is almost all the time, your whole face lights up (mine too!) and your whole body seems to feel the joy. You can make any day better and brighter, which is a gift I hope you never lose. 

You've been walking for a few weeks now, which has opened up a whole new world to explore. You dearly love your big brother and want whatever he has. He makes you laugh and loves you to bits too, and is so patient with you (most of the time).

You have your momma's big blue eyes and love seeing Daddy walk through the door. You like being outside, getting in to brother's toys, bath time, books, noodles, and music. You're also a climber which keeps everyone on their toes. 

You are the beautiful caboose on our cousin train and we all adore you. We can't remember what it was like not to know you and we're so glad you're ours. 

Happy birthday sweet Sugar. You are so very easy to love, and I pray you always smile as big and as freely as you have in this first year of your life. Know your Nana loves you deep and wide xo

"But blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in Him." 
Jeremiah 17:7

Thursday, February 6, 2025

Share Our Shelves-January

It's the first Thursday of the month which means it's time to share what we've read the month prior. Just a note (or possibly a few paragraphs) about how I rate books using the Goodreads five star system. 

I'm extremely stingy with five stars. If I give a book five stars I have absolutely loved it and continued to think about it after the cover has been closed. It's a book that will probably be added to my list of all time favorites.

Four stars for me means it was a great read. 

Three stars is good, but maybe not memorable. It likely had some flaws that bothered, but still not a bad read. 

Two stars is unfortunate and I should have probably quit before I did. 

One star. I don't think I've ever given a book one star because if it's that bad I'm sure I've put it down before finishing. 

Also, I hesitate to rate memoirs because they're someone's lived experience and it doesn't feel right to rate that. 

Now for what I read in January-

Ask Not: The Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed by Maureen Callahan


Whew. This book. If you're a Kennedy fan you likely won't be after reading this one. This isn't a book I would have grabbed on my own, but my sister gave it to me to read and once I got started it was hard to put down. I can't remember a book that made me as furious as this one. 

I will say this is billed as non-fiction, but the author takes a good many liberties in posting internal conversations she wasn't actually privy to. Casting this as non-fiction might be a stretch…calling it an historical re-telling feels more accurate. 

Honestly there was so much absolutely awful behavior it wasn't necessary to add imagined or supposed dialogue. The dirty deeds stand on their own. If social media had been around when some of this had been happening I doubt the family would be as revered as they are in American culture today.

This book isn't about politics at all. At times I felt like I was reading a tabloid but wow, some truly despicable stuff has been perpetrated by the men in this family. The book features nine different women very negatively impacted, some in fact having their lives completely ruined, by various male members of the Kennedy clan. Some of the stories-crimes-escapades I was more familiar with than others, and some I'd forgotten about until I read them re-told here. 

I'm not sure of the author's motives, but I feel like she wanted the stories of these women to be known and heard. Almost without exception the women were cast as 'they did it to themselves' or 'they knew this was what it meant to be married to a Kennedy' while the men take zero percent of the blame or responsibility. 

While not everything presented as fact is indeed a confirmed fact, you still come away feeling kind of sick to your stomach. At least I did.  


The Faculty Lounge by Jennifer Mathieu


Another book my sister recommended and thought I'd like since I taught school. I will say upfront there is some language and lots of the expected progressive point of view expounded upon, so if you don't have the stomach for that you might want to give it a miss. 

If you've taught school, particularly high school, I think you'll nod your head a lot, laugh a little, and will relate to much of the humor and inner workings of a high school as told from the faculty point of view.

The story begins with a substitute teacher dying (of natural causes) in the faculty lounge on a school day, and his death being discovered by a young new teacher. The substitute had been a teacher at the school for decades before retiring, and then returning as a sub. Each chapter following his death features one of the faculty members recounting their own personal experience and interactions with the sub, almost like a series of short stories. I enjoyed the format very much.

The Great Divorce by C. S. Lewis


I have read and loved a lot of C.S. Lewis's writing, but had never read The Great Divorce until now. This is a relatively short, allegorical tale of a bus ride from hell to heaven. You'll need your thinking cap for this one. 

In the tale anyone can take the bus, any one can stay in heaven, but sadly in the end most opt to return to the 'grayness' below. They're unable to give up the very things that prevent them from accepting heaven. The characters have a myriad of excuses as to why, and wow this book makes you think. I will definitely be re-reading it from time to time. 

The story begins with the main character at a bus stop where the bus is taking people to heaven. They begin in The Valley of the Shadow of Death so not quite hell, and end up in The Valley of the Shadow of Life, so not quite heaven. This person goes on to encounter a variety of characters responding to the opportunity to remain in heaven or return to hell. The word divorce is used in the sense that there is a choice to be made and there's no middle ground. There is a complete division between heaven and hell. 

Absolutely loved it and still thinking about it today. Five stars for me. 


The Paris Widow by Kimberly Belle

Let me just say from the beginning I loved the setting. The story begins with Stella and her antique dealing husband (Adam) hopping around Europe ending their tour in Paris, and about to head back to their home in Atlanta. There's an explosion and in the aftermath Adam is missing. Is he dead? Is he/was he the man he said he was? All questions to be answered as the story progresses, with the backstory revealed one chapter at a time. 

When I read books like this I scratch my head at how little fictional married couples seem to actually know about each other. About their work, their pasts, their family dynamics...all of it. And they don't seem curious about it either. I know people try and often succeed to keep affairs hidden, but criminal activity? Maybe I'm too much in my hubs business lol. 

There were some holes in the plot, and some unbelievable bits, but overall it was an enjoyable easy read. Three stars for me. 


The Unmaking of June Farrow by Adriennne Young


I don't remember how I ended up reading this one, and didn't know what I was getting in to when I picked it up. Magical realism isn't for me. There's some time travel in the book which was at times hard to follow, and it wasn't until the end I felt like I finally understood the timeline. I thought the writing was lovely and that's what kept me reading til the end. 

June Farrow is determined to get to the bottom of her mother's disappearance, and at the same time end her family's 'curse'. When she steps through a mysterious door she begins (or continues) a journey through time, discovering secrets about both her past and her future, and the choices she must make that come with the knowledge gained there. Another three star read for me. 

So what have you been reading lately? 


This book party is hosted by Joanne, Marilyn, Jenn, and Tanya...hop over to any one of their blogs to add your link and see what others have been reading.