Sunday, August 10, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 615

Here are the questions to this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge. Answer on your own blog, then hop back here (on Wednesday of course) to add your link to the party. See you there! 

1. August is National Golf month...do you play? Do you enjoy following golf? Have you ever been to a professional tournament? 

2. Astronaut Jim Lovell of Apollo 13 fame passed away this past Thursday. Are you interested in outer space and what's happening today in terms of space exploration? If space travel became common in your lifetime would you go? How do you personally relate to the idea of exploring something vast and mysterious...does the idea excite you, intimidate you, or something else? 

3. Describe your communication style in three words. 

4. Do you have a favorite cookbook? A favorite celebrity chef? Do you watch any cooking shows on TV? 

5. As a child did you have any back to school traditions? If so, did you carry on those same traditions with your own children? Do you have any back to school traditions you've started on your own? 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Thursday, August 7, 2025

Share Your Shelf-July

It's the first Thursday of the month which means it's time to share what we've read the month prior. I had some good reads in July, although I didn't get to a classic. I have one on tap for August and to be honest reading Don Quixote in May should count as two. Linking with Jenn, Joanne, Marilyn, and Tanya today. If you'd like to add your titles or see what others are reading hop over to one of the blogs linked here.  



The Bright Years by Sarah Damoff

"I've learned how big of a dream it is to have a small life." 

This was definitely a favorite. A multi-generational family saga that explores themes of love, loss, addiction, and the enduring power of family ties. Various parts of the story are told by three different members of the Bright family spanning four decades. Each person's voice adds depth to what we already know. I loved the writing. 

Lillian and Ryan fall in love, marry, and have a daughter they name Georgette (Jet). Their happiness is complicated by a number of issues, some born in the past and some present day. The characters are complex, richly drawn, and flawed. You are rooting for them all. 

I don't want to spoil anyone's read, but this one definitely tugs at your heartstrings. Five stars for me. 

"I didn't know happiness could feel so sad'


Heartwood by Amity Gage

The fictional story of 42-year old Valerie Gillis, a nurse who vanishes somewhere in Maine, while hiking the Appalachian Trail. Her disappearance triggers a wide-scale search operation led by Beverly Miller, a female lieutenant with the Maine Warden Service. 

The narration is handled via excerpts from Valerie's journal, Beverly's perspective, and an additional character, 76-year old Lena Kucharski, a retired scientist who acts as armchair detective. Lena has a story  of her own too. While I understand the use of Valerie's journal, I think there would have been a bit more mystery without that piece. 

Is it just me or are there suddenly a slew of books about people disappearing in the woods? 

In this instance I was expecting more intrigue, a thriller even, but that wasn't the case. The author uses the lost hiker as a means to explore the unexpected theme of motherhood. Valerie writes letters to her mother in her journal. Bev the warden has a mother who is dying and there are complicated feelings there. Lena has a daughter who doesn't speak to her. 

Yes there's the search to find Valerie, but mothers and daughters and how they relate are at the heart of the story. Three stars for me. 

Hotel at the Corner of Bitter and Sweet  by Jamie Ford


I've been trying every month to read something that's been sitting on my Goodreads 'to be read' list for a long while and this one fit the bill. 

Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet is a work of historical fiction that tells the story of Henry Lee, a Chinese-American boy, and Keiko Okabe, a Japanese-American girl, who form an unlikely friendship in Seattle during WW2. 

The tale is told using a dual timeline and the format works well. We meet 50-something Henry in his present day life, a recent widower and father to a young adult son with whom he struggles to communicate. The story opens with Henry standing in front of the Panama Hotel which has been shuttered since the war, but has recently been purchased and is undergoing refurbishment. It's a spot that holds memories both bitter and sweet for him. 

In the clean up process, suitcases and other items that belonged to Japanese Americans sent to internment camps during the war are discovered in the basement. The story alternates between the 1980s (present day) and Henry's experiences in the 1940s. I enjoyed both timelines. 

I'll be honest and say that while I knew there were Japanese internment camps in the US during the war,  I didn't know much more than that. A poignant, tender, well-told story. Loved it. Four stars for me. 


The Lioness by Chris Bohjalian 

This book y'all. It's intense and had me from the word go. It's original and I'm a fan of original. The author has done a lot of research into the geo-political climate of Africa in the 1960's and it's woven in to the story in a way that's engaging. It feels like a thriller and it is, but there's history on the pages too. This is not a keep you up at night with the covers pulled over your head  kind of thriller. 

Unless you've got an African Safari on the calendar, and then all bets are off. 

It's 1964 and a popular actress (Katie Barstow) and her new husband (David Hill) decide to bring a group of their Hollywood friends to Tanzania to join them for the second leg of their honeymoon. For most of the group this will be a photo safari and the first few days start off gently enough. Things go awry pretty quickly and by awry I mean yikes! 

This was a page turner for me. You should know going in there's some violence of both the two-legged and four-legged variety. Four stars for me. 


Parent's Weekend by Alex Finlay 

Five college students go missing during Parent's Weekend at a California university. All are pretty much a mess in some way, or at least they come from messy families. There are some cliches here which grate, but the plot grabs you. 

There are a lot of people in this book and I found myself flipping back to the intro page often to re-check the helpful cast list. On the plus side, I really liked the lead FBI agent Sarah Keller with her nice kids and her smart, caring husband. She felt relatable, capable without being over the top, and also really likable. 

I read this in a day with my toes in the sand. It was a good beach read and held my interest to the end. An easy read, maybe not memorable, but enjoyable nonetheless. 

So what have you been reading? Send any new favorites my way!

Wednesday, August 6, 2025

A Midsomer Hodgepodge

Welcome to August and this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge. If you've answered today's questions, add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. Here we go...

From this Side of the Pond
1. The midpoint of summer (believe it or not) is August 7th. Describe a perfect summer day. Have you had one this year? 

A clear bright blue sky, although a few puffy non-threatening clouds are okay too...coffee on the porch, a book on a float on the lake, an outdoor shower, friends dropping by, hubs grilling a steak to perfection, music under the starry night sky...that would be one formula for a perfect summer day. 

We've had a few. 

That being said there are may ways to have a perfect summer day. Case in point-

2. What's one thing you wish you knew before starting high school? 

There's a lot of pressure in high school, both socially and academically. Lots of big feelings you're trying to manage. These can be, and often are, wonderful years, but you're still learning who you are and who you want to be. These are not the best years of your life. 

3. What's something that bothers you if it's not done perfectly? 

The way the dishwasher is loaded. Ridiculous I know, but there is a right way lol. 

4. What's the most overrated food you're convinced people are just pretending to enjoy?

Matcha

What's a trendy food you actually do enjoy and would say is definitely not overrated?  

sushi, oysters 

5. Wrapping it up this week with five fun this or thats...

personal stylist or personal chef? 
Stylist for sure

dance like nobody's watching or sing like nobody's listening? 
hmmm...I've been known to do both, but probably singing

unlimited tacos or free pizza?
free pizza

bookshelf organization-by size or by genre? 
by genre, but then within genres by size

ten minutes late or ten minutes early? 
early of course

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Vitamin Sea...

...for when life feels a little too salty. 


Sunday, August 3, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 614

Here are the questions to our regular mid-week Hodgepodge. Answer the questions on your own blog, then hop back here on Wednesday (August 6th) to add your link to the party. See you there! 

From this Side of the Pond
1. The midpoint of summer (believe it or not) is August 7th. Describe a perfect summer day. Have you had one this year? 

2. What's one thing you wish you knew before starting high school? 

3. What's something that bothers you if it's not done perfectly? 

4. What's the most overrated food you're convinced people are just pretending to enjoy? What's a trendy food you actually do enjoy and would say is definitely not overrated? 

5. Wrapping it up this week with five fun this or thats...

personal stylist or personal chef? 
dance like nobody's watching or sing like nobody's listening? 
unlimited tacos or free pizza? 
bookshelf organization-by size or by genre? 
ten minutes late or ten minutes early? 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Friday, August 1, 2025

A Week In The "Amazon"

Hello friends. TGIF. It's been a long week here for no real reason other than it's felt that way. We've had a lot of to-do's on the calendar and I feel like the Amazon delivery driver has been at my house on the daily. I took almost no pictures this week, but will share my Amazon goodies at the end because I do have snaps of those. 

Monday hubs had to take his new truck back to the dealer because when he picked it up the week before the cover for the bed hadn't arrived. Plus there was a small ding they needed to rub out, and since all of this couldn't be done on Monday he got a loaner and then had to return Wednesday for the pick up. The dealer is almost an hour away.

While he was out I dusted and cleaned bathrooms and made the fabulous peach bars I mentioned here on Tuesday. 


Friends came by later in the afternoon for a meeting about a book event we're organizing for all the book clubs around the lake. We had one event last year and it was a lot of fun. This year we're aiming for an author evening. 

Tuesday I had a hair appointment so my chauffeur (aka the hubs) dropped me off, went to his guitar lesson, then picked me up afterwards. We decided to stop for lunch at Five Guys and their burgers are always  good. I get the kid size and we get one order of fries to share because they overload the fries in a good way, but still you do not get out of there for under thirty bucks which feels like a lot for fast food. 

I came home and read and rested my foot, then played Mah Jong that evening. As we were wrapping up,  a crazy storm blew in with lightning that was absolutely nuts. Nonstop. We ended up staying in the clubhouse an extra hour because nobody wanted to risk a strike. We watched the radar and when we saw a small window there we all made a beeline for our cars. A friend had picked me up because again, not driving. When you can't drive you feel like a pest bumming rides everywhere, but it is what it is. 

Wednesday we had big plans. A trip to the DMV for our new license/real ID. We both have passports so haven't worried too much about getting the real ID, but since our licenses were expiring this month we decided to go ahead and bring all the docs for the ID. We arrived before they opened and there was already a fairly long line, but! Our little DMV is the most efficient, friendliest, DMV I've ever encountered. We've moved a lot so I've encountered many. Every single person we dealt with in this office was so pleasant and did their job well. 

A guy came outside before they opened and handed out forms to everyone so they would be ready to check in. They had many windows open and we sat less than a minute before we were called. In and out in less than an hour and not feeling irritated in the least. 

We hadn't eaten breakfast so stopped at a new Eggs Up Grill on the way home for 'brunch'.  It's a franchise, and there's another one in the next town over that we've eaten in before, but this was our first time to the one in our town. I had a Greek scrambler and it was yummy. 

Hubs dropped me at home then headed back to dealer town to get a haircut and then pick up the truck. I'd put a Mississippi roast in the crock pot that morning and made mashed potatoes, then loaded up my car to go to my daughter's house to watch the grands for the evening. She and her hubs had a work related event to attend so I brought dinner over and hubs met me there when he was through in town. We played for a bit, then had dinner and watched a movie. Everyone was tired so it was low key and nice. 

Thursday was a big day. Ortho day. I had my follow up and whoohoo!! FREEDOM!!

Well mostly freedom. He said I can come out of the boot, but not to go crazy. To wean myself out of it over the next couple of weeks and go easy on the activity but still, it's progress. And I won't be in a boot the entire beach trip which is really the main thing I was not looking forward to. 

I had a library book to return and one to pick up so hubs went with me and we got dinner at a cheesesteak place that's really good and is close to the library. He'd won a gift certificate there in a drawing so might as well use it up. 

And that was pretty much our week. I looked back at my Amazon account to see what I ordered and here's the 411-

Hubs has a new truck and you can never just buy a new truck. You need a bunch of new truck gear to go with. He got this cargo net thingamabog to keep cargo from rolling around in the truck bed. 

And of course the little brown dog needs to ride in style and since he's in the back seat now instead of the way back like he was in the Tahoe. We got a seat protector and comfy pad and something to keep him out of the front seat which I don't think he likes too much. 

He's riding around like a king, but still his favorite place to be in a car is in the front seat, which I've already called dibs on,  so the back seat it is-


Apparently we now need to buy steps too so he can more easily get in and out of the vehicle. This one has a higher entry for him than the vehicle we sold.

I bought a new coverup because I wear one every day here in the summer. It's cute and comfortable and comes in lots of colors. I got the navy. 

I take these fish oil tabs and have them on subscription through Amazon. My doc recommended them and I keep them in the freezer which helps them smell less fishy.

We have a spaniel and spaniel ears need constant attention so we got this which the vet recommends.

I bought these cute jams because I needed new jams. They're super soft and  come in many colors and several patterns too. I got the blue green and it's pretty.

A 'sock' for my ankle the ortho recommended. It's not here yet (I guess that will be today's delivery lol), but this is the one he said to get and I'll wear it when I'm back doing more walking in the form of exercise. Someday I'll stop talking about my ankle but today is not that day.

We also got this wine storage unit because we needed more storage. Plus three lego sets, three books, a streamer wand, and new pillows for one of my guest room beds. Whew. 

So what did you buy do this week? Hope your weekend is full of R&R!  

This post is linked with Erika and Andrea and their Friday Favorites hop. 

Wednesday, July 30, 2025

A Hodgepodge For The Ages

Welcome to the Wednesday Hodgepodge, our last one in July. If you've answered this week's questions add your link at the end of my post, then leave a comment for the blogger before you. Here we go...

From this Side of the Pond

1. On July 29th 1957 The Tonite Show premiered with Jack Parr as it's host. This marked the beginning of the modern day talk show. Do you watch any daytime or late night talk shows today? Do you have any thoughts on the hubbub surrounding the cancellation of The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, or are you more in the camp of 'who is Stephen Colbert? 

I don't watch any talk shows these days. Mostly because I find celebrity culture exhausting and not all that interesting. In my opinion the night time shows have become less entertainment, more political commentary and who wants that when they're trying to quiet their mind for sleeping???

Eons ago we would fall asleep to Johnny Carson or David Letterman, but this new crop is too full of their own self-importance for me to enjoy. Sure there are some funny bits now and then, but the overall content is very one-sided. Not everyone shares my opinion and that's fine, but I'm not tuning in and apparently I'm not the only one. 

I paid very little attention to the outrage over the cancellation of Colbert's show. It wasn't making the network money, and there's a merger happening, and entertainment is business so it's gone. Pretty sure it's not the end of democracy as some folks want us to believe.  

2. What's the best part of your day? 

"The best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup"....raise your hand if you remember the jingle? I checked to see when that ad first ran and it was 1984. The year I got married. 

I don't drink Folgers but that first cup of coffee in the early morning hours is definitely one of the best parts of the day. Early morning in general is the best part of my day. I like the quiet, the sunrise, and easing in to the day with my coffee and 
what feels like endless possibilities. 

3. What's something your generation does that you actually dislike? 

I can't think of anything I truly dislike. I will say I think it's normal as we age to become more resistant to change...our routines, technology, the way the way the world works...we want those things to stay as we've always known them to be. 

We're all a product of the times in which we're raised, but...the world does change and we have to cultivate some flexibility if we're going to age gracefully. I get it. Sometimes you just don't want to learn how to do something a new way. 

Time marches on with our without us, and we can't always be looking blissfully at what was and criticizing what is. I want to keep learning and growing and that means accepting that the world in 2025 looks a lot different than it did when I was 'young' (er). Some things are better, some are worse. I'm sure my parents felt the same. 

4. When you cook do you clean as you go, or clean it all up once you're finished cooking? What's the last thing you cooked/baked in your own kitchen? 

I don't exactly clean as I go, but I don't save it all til the end either. Hubs is 100% clean as you go. He's been known to wash a pan I'm planning to use again.  If he enters the kitchen while I'm baking it can make him twitch a little. 

I would say I clean as I need to, but save most of it for the end because I like to focus more on the actual measuring-sifting-mixing. If my hubs were answering he'd say I definitely lean more towards the clean it all up at the end side of things. Hi hubs! 

The last thing I cooked in my kitchen was a pesto pasta dish I made for dinner Monday night. I answer the questions Monday or Tuesday usually.

5. Sum up your July in ten words or less. 

An ankle fracture. That's it. That's July. 

I mean there were lots of lovely bright spots too, but if I'm summing it up that's the highlight. Or lowlight depending on your point of view. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

When we added the waterfall to our backyard we asked the guys doing the work to add a few plants around it...

That's it. That was the level of instruction we gave them regarding landscaping which, if you know us, you know this is not us lol. 

Mostly we didn't get specific because we didn't realize at the time how large the finished space would be. 

But no matter because they made it so pretty. There's actually a fair amount of planting all around and we love it. These verbena have been blooming since May and show no signs of slowing down. 


Happy Wednesday everyone! 


Tuesday, July 29, 2025

Peachy Keen

 Linking with Joanne today for Talking About It Tuesdays

A little over a week ago hubs and I went to a country orchard to pick peaches. I know everyone hears the word peaches and thinks Georgia, but did you know South Carolina grows more peaches than Georgia? True story. 

And this year they're exceptional. Some of the trees had morning glory vines growing up their trunks which made them extra pretty. 

We probably came home with about 30 or so peaches and have enjoyed them so much. 

We ate quite a few of them for breakfast, sliced atop some plain yogurt, sprinkled with granola, sliced almonds, and a drizzle of honey. If we had other berries in the frig we added those too. 

The breakfast of champions. 

I like to make a peach cobbler once every summer so that was on our July menu. I love Paula Deen's recipe (linked) and it makes a lot. Since it was just hubs and I here for the consuming I made one recipe, but put it in two pans and that worked out fine. 

We had one to keep and I shared the other pan with friends. I like vanilla ice cream on mine, but whipped cream is good too. 

One night hubs roasted peaches on the grill. We followed this recipe but I used cinnamon instead of pumpkin pie spice. 

 A warm peach with a dollop of whipped cream on top is a really yummy dessert. 

Up close the bowl looks like it needs to go in the dishwasher, but it's just the sugary peach juice that dripped while moving from the grill to the bowl. 

This week I was down to the last few, and had about five peaches left that I worried were going to go mushy. On Monday I made the most scrumptious (if I do say so myself) peach bars I found by randomly searching Pinterest. 

Sidebar here, but does anyone else get super frustrated by all the ads and videos that pop up when you're trying to read a recipe on Pinterest? 

I dropped the ball in terms of picture taking but here's the pan just before it went into the oven. 


I should have snapped a picture of the bars on a tray, but here's a snap of what they look like cooked. 

I had some women here for a meeting Monday afternoon and everyone wanted the recipe. They're similar to a lemon bar, except of course are made with peaches instead of lemons, and the filling sets up nicer I think. The texture is good, and the topping does its job by quite literally sending it over the top. 

And now I'm a little bit sad we're out of peaches. Happy Tuesday!