And happy anniversary to us! Hubs is in one state and I'm in another, but we'll still mark 41 years of married life today.
This particular weekend in June is what I call the trifecta here. Not only is it our anniversary, it's also Grandson #3's birthday and Father's Day too. Whew! Lots to celebrate.
Let's back up and take it one occasion at a time, k?
We had plans to travel to Daughter2's house in Tennessee for the big birthday bash happening there on Saturday afternoon. Hubs and I were going to head that direction Friday afternoon and then Daughter1 and her kiddos would join us there Saturday morning.
Before leaving town we had a small birthday brunch here for a friend celebrating a milestone year. I mean why not? We had three couples in addition to the two of us. We intended to make bacon and eggs on the griddle, but the weather didn't cooperate for outdoor cooking. We still were able to dine outside, but hubs made the bacon and eggs on the stove. I made my overnight French toast, one friend brought a delicious hash brown casserole, and another friend brought a beautiful fruit tray.
I think birthdays should be celebrated and this was a fun gathering.
Once everyone left to get on with their weekend we finished cleaning up and hit the road to hub's brother and sister-in-law's house. My mother-in-law lives nearby and we were going to spend the night at my brother-in-law's then collect hubs mom Saturday morning to go the additional hour and a half to the party.
This was our first trip to the Knoxville area driving our pre-Helene route. The highway between Asheville and Knoxville has been mostly closed or single lane since the hurricane hit and it's still a huge mess. You can at least get through now, and the traffic wasn't too terrible. I know most of the country has moved on from the disaster of Helene to any number of other crises our country has experienced since, but it's really hard to see and think about all that's been lost or rearranged in the western Carolinas and East Tennessee.
We arrived at my brother-in-law's home in time for dinner. They grilled delicious filets and it's always great to see them and catch up in person. They were also keeping the little brown dog for us overnight so we didn't have to bring him to the party and he loves that.
Saturday morning we picked up hub's mama and headed to Daughter2's. Her sister arrived with her crew and the world's biggest dinosaur balloon shortly after and we all had lunch.
The party wasn't starting until 3:30 and the weather was questionable. They have a bounce house and we got that set up (by 'we' I mean my son-in-law of course) and then about an hour before the party the skies opened up, it rained buckets, then blew on out and the sun shone once more.
Guests began arriving and the kids had a ball. My daughter and son-in-law have the nicest friends and they all have kids of a similar age which is fun. My daughter's in-laws were also there and we always enjoy time spent with them.
The party had a dinosaur theme and everything was super cute. There was pizza and ice cream cake with a side of cupcakes too.
The bounce house got a workout so a win for kids and parents alike.
One of my favorite things about the day-
Since Daughter2 had a full house with the in-laws in town plus her sister with her three children, hubs and I booked hotel rooms for us and for his mom for the night. The in-laws are staying over for several days and it didn't make sense for them to go to a hotel.
Sunday morning we went back to the house for breakfast with the whole gang. I'd made two trays of french toast for the Friday brunch and brought one with me for the weekend which worked out well. My son-in-law made bacon and eggs on his Blackstone so everyone ate well.
Oh, and happy Father's Day! I brought chocolates for all the dads and they had plans to go skeet shooting or clays or something similar that afternoon which they love. I rode back to the lake with my daughter1 and her kids as I had some things to take care of today, Monday. Hubs drove his mom back to her home Sunday afternoon, then spent the night at his brother's house. He had plans to meet a long time friend for lunch and will be home later today.
Forty one years ago today we said I Do. We'll make plans for a celebratory dinner in the next couple of weeks, because while we're always living life all in, I still think it's important to set aside time to mark the year. To see where we are and where we've been and to say we're still here.
I always write a birthday letter to my grands on their special day, and if you'd like to read today's birthday letter, you'll find it linked here-Dino-mighty
Linking today with Holly and Sarah for their regular Monday morning weekend recap hop.
Jump over to their blogs if you'd like to join the party. Have a great day everyone~
Happy Anniversary! Nothing says "I got married in the 80's" quite like a groom in a morning suit. Which I love. Which we did too... ;-)
ReplyDeleteWhat a great, full weekend! I'm glad that it's easier to get to TN now. The news cycle is interesting. A location gets lots of press coverage when something devastating hits (as it should...) and then everyone else moves on and generally forgets about it (though truthfully how could everyone continue actively caring for, thinking about, contributing money to, etc. every natural disaster everywhere?) while those impacted cannot move on. The pictures of the family get together are so good! You can see/feel the love and I know you appreciate being together with your people. Have a great Monday!
ReplyDeleteHappy Happy Anniversary Joyce! Sounds like such a wonderful weekend- loved how you squeezed in hosting friends before taking off for your busy weekend- you are truly a gem! :)
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary! What a full weekend! It's so hard to see that devastation and how much time has passed makes it even more surreal. Your daughters look so similar. Do people think they are twins? I agree to celebrate it all! I have a real mental block about my own retirement party - I just can decide how to do it.
ReplyDeleteI love the brunch idea!
Wow! Sounds like such a good time! Happy anniversary!
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary! I love knowing that we married just a few weeks apart in 1984!! Y'all had a fun weekend!
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary! That sounds like such a fun weekend. That dinosaur balloon is the biggest balloon I've ever seen! We had a very very rainy Saturday; one of the local schools had to postpone their outdoor graduation 2 times and encouraged everyone to bring towels to clean off their chairs.
ReplyDeleteYou always impress me with all that you do. What a weekend you had. This post was a wonderful read. I'm so glad that the bounce house worked out for the kids. Happy Anniversary!
ReplyDeleteYou live life to the fullest and how wonderful that you can soak it all in. So much relationality (is that a word?) happening in your corner! Happy #41!
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